Ok- I'm a normal looking white guy, middle aged. My wife is several years younger, looks even more younger. Has nice shape to her, a little bit full, but a fun look in her eyes. Whenever we walk into a bar, Martini Club, whatever venue- any black guys tend to look her over pretty good, seemingly looking right through or beyond me. Normally, we'll go take a seat and have good discussion. I always watch for other ladies to come in, and then I watch the same black guys who gave my wife the once over to see if they do the same to the other ladies. Normally, I see a difference. The question I have for you black guys- Do you sense that a hubby is a little weak, the wife a potential hit, and the hubby would be accepting (or welcoming) verses some other guys. Or is my perception wrong and you view all the women like my wife and I am just predisposed and paranoid to think you are ogling her to an extra degree.