Push she needs or over step the mark

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Ok my wife is wanting to move from roleplay to reality but shes teetering on the edge she has to go to Birmingham uk in may and will be in a nice hotel for four nights on her own would it be ok to set her up to be seduced or would i be pushing too hard.
Its taken two years to get her to want other guys and now she talks about it more than me.. dont want to spoil it but i just think she might be receptive to a charming guy when shes away from home and it might get ball rolling