I think it's way better. Older guys have more experience and patience and the confidence to teach and guide. A white girl is going to learn much more from and older Black guy than she is from a white boy in her age group. I wish it was promoted more.
My wife has only been with a black man once, and he was older and a gentleman. We're not overly fond of the thug types no matter what race they are. She doesn't "owe" you anything. She "allows" you the pleasure of using her pussy. Older gentlemen understand that but younger guys don't seem to.
I don't think it matters what race the man is I think there is a limit and it works both ways not just when the man is older but when a woman is older to it also depends who the younger person is for instance you don't sleep with your Son or your daughters best friend or your best friends daughter or your step daughter or son well not in my book, either way the
Responsibilities lie with the older party in this case the man real men do the right thing in my opinion.