Lol pretty much objectified right there bro...
You definitely do see women who arent interested in the male but rather the good sex, well I think so anyway. I do find it quite annoying to be honest, and I do feel it has slightly pushed me away from the interracial scene. Not in a way that I dont date white women, more in the sense that the hardcore size queens and sex lovers don't really interest me. I like there to be a connection during sex, also to do with the fact that Im quite a sensual person and I dont want to be with someone if its just for my dick, no matter if its just a one night stand or a fling.
I understand the thing about "size queens" and those having "jungle fever".
However, I think you missed the point, being that,
until one begins to talk to the other person, the ONLY attraction between them IS a sexual one. It's what the person felt the moment they first saw you.
No one is attracted to your intelligence, your emotional vulnerability or your humanitarian generosity when you first walk into a bar, church or whatever, because at
that point they know nothing about you other than you look HOT! They are attracted to your "*******/sexual magnetism/aura", that thing you project to them before you've even had a chance to speak. (Which is usually the point that the other gets turned off!
)
For many women, especially white women, black men have a sexual desirability that gives that man an open door to at least approach them and make an ass of himself, whereas the rest of us have to work at coming up with something to try to intrigue them into giving us an opportunity to make asses of ourselves.
Just saying: don't bitch about having a
slight advantage.
That's like a really beautiful, intelligent woman with a nice, natural pair of tits and a killer ass complaining that men find her sexually attractive.
Yeah, we all would and, after she opens her mouth and proves she's an airhead, most of us would still fuck her. Unless she showed that she
really had a brain, because, if she was
really intelligent, most of us would run on account of she would scare the living fuck out of us and we would be afraid of how stupid she'd make us look!
You know there is another point to consider. After a lifetime of being the "sexual object of desire" for men (in general), for a woman to be turning the tables and looking at men sexually is sort of "fair play", and, while a black man may be a prime target because of all the hype about size and prowess, would you
really rather not have that little bit of "mystery" working for you?
It's
ONLY giving you the opportunity to hook up, after that you are on your own just like the rest of us and if
you aren't moving beyond the "let's fuck" stage, maybe
you need to be looking at
why they only want to fuck you, but have no interest in anything beyond.
Having a big dick and knowing how to use it
isn't reason for women to
lose interest in a man.
Is it?
Note to handsomeNhung: the
you I am speaking about isn't necessarily you as an individual, but more a collective "you" of men finding themselves dealing with this issue and feeling the same way.