I wanted to thank everyone we I have spoken with over the last couple months. Talking with you all and also with my girlfriend we have decided we are not ready for this type of thing at this time. It sounds like it can be a great addition to an already solid relationship but we just do not believe we are there at this time. Many of you have been very honest and open in our conversations and I can't thank you all enough for your help. We are not closing the door forever, just for right now. Thanks again!