Hi, I'm Lana I am married, late 40's, and I play with black men with my husband's permission and encouragement. We have been active in the lifestyle for about 4 years off and on, with some long breaks in between due to reality. I guess the best way to say it is we play when we can. Hubby is straight, likes to watch and photo, and I like being watched, so it works! We are in the south, travel quite a bit, and do not play in our hometown. We play as we can within a busy schedule, which unfortunately is a few times each year. I like professional men 35 and older who can carry on a conversation.