There are two lifestyle clubs in New Orleans. Colette's and Jasmine's. Both are regular swinger/lifestyle clubs that have all types of people attend and they both allow single men in the clubs. Neither one are specifically clubs for black men, but Jasmine's does have a white couple and black men theme night once or twice a year. However, I do not think either club caters to male homosexual behavior or interests and I seriously doubt that you could fins a man there to do what you are wanting.