New here looking for REAL help.

Discussion in 'Introduce Yourself Here' started by Knoxvilleguy05, May 8, 2015.

  1. Knoxvilleguy05

    Knoxvilleguy05 New Member

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    Hi everyone, seems im like many on here. I have a beautiful wife that I would love to watch with other men especially black men. But I do not know how to get her into the idea. She is 25, little conservative. A very sexy woman. If anyone can help id love to talk and be friends, but please be serious.
     
  2. calguy

    calguy Active Member Gold Member

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    Introduce her to ur black friends, try to watch IR porn!
     
  3. xpatblack

    xpatblack Active Member

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    Happy to chat and give advice
    But in the long run she must want to
     
  4. Jekyll Hyde

    Jekyll Hyde New Member

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    Have u talked to any of your black male friends about their assistance.
     
  5. falcondfw69

    falcondfw69 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Seriously? That is what you have to offer? This is not about the Bull, even as much as you want it to be.
    This is about the wife.
    If the wife is reluctant about it, does not want it, etc. It is a long, slow process.
    You make it seem like all he has to do is introduce her to a black guy and her panties will naturally just fall off. If this is the way you believe, you are an idiot.
    Knoxville, take it slow. But be absolutely 1000% sure you want this to happen. Things may not always end up the way you see them.
     
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  6. calguy

    calguy Active Member Gold Member

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    Agree with ur advise. Make sure u both are ready for this coz it might lead into either positive or negative consequences for ur relationship
     
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  7. falcondfw69

    falcondfw69 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Cal is a smart guy. I have known him for a long time and he will be honest with you. Yes, he would love to get inside your panties. lol. But he will be truthful above that.
     
  8. Jekyll Hyde

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    And how exactly did I make it seem as if all he had to do was introduce her to a black guy? I asked a question. I agree its her decision. I'm not sure how discussing your interests with persons that you personally know that may be a mutual friend to the wife makes me an idiot.
     
  9. Knoxvilleguy05

    Knoxvilleguy05 New Member

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    I appreciate the real response. Im very aware this isnt going to happen Over night. I have told her I wanted her to open up and I wanted to watch her. At first it was total shock and confusion. But then I thought I saw making head way... She talked it a few times during sex and when we were masturbating. Even got her a larger dildo which she enjoyed, then it off no where it just stopped, she said it scared her. So here I am
     
  10. calguy

    calguy Active Member Gold Member

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    These things should be well thought and both should feel comfy moving forward coz lot of couples end up divorcing after going through swinglifestyle. I bet u don't wanna be on that track. Take ur time, goto clubs and see how she feels, watch IR porn at home.
     
  11. falcondfw69

    falcondfw69 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Just take it REAL slow. If you rush things, you will frighten her off.
     
  12. falcondfw69

    falcondfw69 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    DAMN, CAL. You could be my twin! lol.
     
  13. calguy

    calguy Active Member Gold Member

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    Hahha, I know ur taste well so kinda threw it out there and saved u time ;)
     
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