New Developements!

[Guyton]

New developments in my relationship and hope to get a little advice. If you have read the following thread you know the wife and I have been playing with dildos. The link is below. I have several pics of her in this thread and one below. Reading this thread may give you some background info on us.

https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/love-fucking-my-wife-with-a-big-black-dildo.37259/

My ultimate fantasy is for her to have sex with a hung black man while I watch and video. When we play I am always talking and stating how good she looks and how I like watching those cocks sliding in and out of her pretty little pussy.

Anyway, recently I changed from talking about the dildo as an object and started talking about it like it was a real man. Basically went from saying, "Your pussy looks so pretty with the dildo sliding deep into you and stretching you," to stating, "I am sitting beside the bed as he is sliding his big black cock into you." "He loves your pussy." "He is really taking your pussy." "How do you like his bbc." "Is he doing your pussy good." So, the true fantasy came out. It wasn't just us playing with toys. It was me living out a true fantasy with black dildos. She was a little upset. She stated, "I think you might actually want me to be with someone else."

At that point I confessed, I told her over the last decade I had fantasized about her being with a black man with a large cock. You must understand, my wife is very conservative and playing with dildos was a big leap. Porn is not allowed, etc. So this was a bit of a shock for her, underneath I think she knew, but this is the first time I came out and admitted it. Well, she said she didn't want to be a disappointment to me, but she couldn't do it. She asked, "Please don't make me do it." I told her, "I would never make you do something you didn't want to do." We talked and I gave more detail how it would be anonymous and in a hotel. No one would know who she was. I told her about the word cuckold. I told her that I didn't want to be with other women, etc.

The next night we had sex and I was mostly silent. You should know I am a talker during sex. My talk revolves around my fantasy. The following are common phrases: "You love sucking cock." "You are fantastic cocksucker." (that was a stretch the first time I said it, but she actually responded positively to the statement.) "You could please any man with your cock sucking skills." "I am so lucky to have a wife that loves sucking cock." "You have a hungry little pussy." "Your pussy loves cock doesn't it?" If we are playing with dildos I would add: "Does that big black cock feel good." "Is that pussy hungry for that big black cock." So, when I was mostly silent the next night she asked me to talk. She actually likes the sex talk, but I told her I didn't know what to say. I stated, "All my phrases are about the fantasy and now that I know you are not into it, I don't know what to say. I don't want to upset you now the cat is out of the bag." She said she is sorry she is a disappointment to me. I assured her she is not a disappointment to me and that I loved her. She asked if I had already talked to someone and I assured her I had not. I almost thought she was curious.

Well anyway, this got me thinking and I put a anonymous ad on Craigslist for a couple seeking a bbc and got several replies. One in particular hit my interests. He has an 8 inch cock that looks pretty nice and said he would love to meet and talk about it. I had him send me another pic with his right hand holding three fingers extended next to his cock to prove that he was real. Sure enough a pic of the same cock with his three fingers extended came that evening.

Now the advice for moving forward. I thought I would meet with this guy and discuss the rules and see what I thought of him and if he would be compatible. I told him I would like to see his cock in person and get a few pics of it. I then thought I might tell the wife I met someone who was interested and show her the pics. Tell her I hope she is not mad at me. Let her know I showed him some faceless pics and he thought she was hot. See if she would consider it. If not just drop it for a while.

I thought about asking her to watch this video explaining what cuckold was. She may not as she won't watch porn, but it may also excite her.

Well, you can see where I am at and any advice is appreciated. Here is a pic of her.

 

[Guyton]

Yesterday, Saturday, she was worried I was still disappointed so in the middle of the afternoon she asked me if I wanted to take a nap together. I said I was fine and then she said what about an afternoon delight. So of course I went to the bedroom. She opened all of the curtains to get the room bright as she knows I like to see. Just before sucking my cock she stated, "I want you to talk to me like normal." Normal would be me saying how good a cock sucker she is and telling her she could please any man with her mouth, etc. Well, I stayed pretty silent and she started saying, "Am I doing good," "Could I please any man?" Holy *******, she has never said anything like that. That got me going and I started talking again. She usually blows me with her arm over my belly and facing my feet so I can't really see, but this time she faced me and looked right in my eyes and licked up and down the shaft and really put on a show. Wow, I went a step forward and said, "I would love to see you sucking on a big black cock and watch his face as you used all your cock sucking skills on him," "I would like to watch your face as you started loving sucking that big black cock."

This does not seem like much to some, but it is another major step in the fantasy department. We, I, am actually talking during sex about her sucking and fucking a black man. Before it was just a dildo, sex toy we were talking about. So the cat is out of the bag and it is now going to become more detailed about how I want to see her. I can imagine setting up the scene while she is sucking my cock, telling her how I met a man and meeting in the hotel room and how it would go down. Really paint the fantasy of our first bbc in a hotel room.

I have not been brave enough to show her the video in the previous post. Any suggestions or comments are appreciated.

 

[Skinbones]

I suggest to keep doing what you're doing and just be patient. She will eventually come around to the idea that she wants to give her body the pleasure she craves and needs by getting some BBC from a Black Bull with you're approval of course.

I do advise to be careful of what you wish for because she may get hooked! Good luck and keep updating us on your progress.

 

[Jose]

Any progress yet?

 

[Guyton]

Any progress yet?

Well, a lot has changed. I talked to her the other night and admitted to her I had put an anonymous Craigslist ad out looking for black men. Let me tell you, she was three kinds of pissed off and upset. I told her It was totally anonymous and used a fake email. I told her I was contacted by several men and had shared a headless photo of her tits with one man. Well, she was even more pissed. Anyway, it was a big blowout. I kind of expected this to happen and it helped bring the topic to a head. She knew I was serious that I would really like for this to happen. She in no uncertain terms told me it would never happen. So, for a couple of days it was pretty icy around the house.

I made my own video with the exact words of the video I previously posted, "What is Cuckold?." It was a little more tame with a beautiful young wife taking a large black cock. I got the balls up to broach the topic and asked her to watch the video. Even though she does not watch porn, she watched the video and then we talked. She reiterated that she was sorry and didn't want to disappoint me, but she just could not imagine being with another man. The thought made her stomach turn.

I pretty much thought the fantasy talk and use of dildos was over. Over the last couple of weeks she has tried really hard to make me happy in bed, which I appreciated. I didn't do my normal hot talk and such and sex was noticeably less spicy, even though she really tried heating things up. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoyed it and let her know that, but the intensity of our love making was less. I would normally talk and say things like: "You love sucking cock don't you.", "You have a hungry little pussy, that pussy loves big cock doesn't it." These things always seemed to make her hotter, although she may not admit it. Physically, it was fairly obvious.

Anyway, the other night she asked if I wanted to play with a toy. Wow, she is still open to that. So we started playing and she asked my how it looked. She asked, because she knows I love watching. I know she was goading me to talk sexy to her. So I started telling her how good her little pussy looked sucking on that big black cock." "Does you pussy love how this big black cock feels." "Do you love big cock." She starts moving her pussy and enjoying herself. Wow, we are back to the fantasy stage.

I really thought bbc fantasy was relegated to recesses of my mind, but we are now enjoying the dildos and fantasy talk again. I will just be happy with that. I know the seed is planted and may never grow beyond fantasy, but it does make our sex hot and I love fucking her with a variety of large dildos. Now that she knows what is really in my mind, it makes the fantasy a little more real. I will not push to make it real for a long long time, but she may slowly warm up to the idea. I know I can't push it anymore.

 

[Jose]

Well, a lot has changed. I talked to her the other night and admitted to her I had put an anonymous Craigslist ad out looking for black men. Let me tell you, she was three kinds of pissed off and upset. I told her It was totally anonymous and used a fake email. I told her I was contacted by several men and had shared a headless photo of her tits with one man. Well, she was even more pissed. Anyway, it was a big blowout. I kind of expected this to happen and it helped bring the topic to a head. She knew I was serious that I would really like for this to happen. She in no uncertain terms told me it would never happen. So, for a couple of days it was pretty icy around the house.

I made my own video with the exact words of the video I previously posted, "What is Cuckold?." It was a little more tame with a beautiful young wife taking a large black cock. I got the balls up to broach the topic and asked her to watch the video. Even though she does not watch porn, she watched the video and then we talked. She reiterated that she was sorry and didn't want to disappoint me, but she just could not imagine being with another man. The thought made her stomach turn.

I pretty much thought the fantasy talk and use of dildos was over. Over the last couple of weeks she has tried really hard to make me happy in bed, which I appreciated. I didn't do my normal hot talk and such and sex was noticeably less spicy, even though she really tried heating things up. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoyed it and let her know that, but the intensity of our love making was less. I would normally talk and say things like: "You love sucking cock don't you.", "You have a hungry little pussy, that pussy loves big cock doesn't it." These things always seemed to make her hotter, although she may not admit it. Physically, it was fairly obvious.

Anyway, the other night she asked if I wanted to play with a toy. Wow, she is still open to that. So we started playing and she asked my how it looked. She asked, because she knows I love watching. I know she was goading me to talk sexy to her. So I started telling her how good her little pussy looked sucking on that big black cock." "Does you pussy love how this big black cock feels." "Do you love big cock." She starts moving her pussy and enjoying herself. Wow, we are back to the fantasy stage.

I really thought bbc fantasy was relegated to recesses of my mind, but we are now enjoying the dildos and fantasy talk again. I will just be happy with that. I know the seed is planted and may never grow beyond fantasy, but it does make our sex hot and I love fucking her with a variety of large dildos. Now that she knows what is really in my mind, it makes the fantasy a little more real. I will not push to make it real for a long long time, but she may slowly warm up to the idea. I know I can't push it anymore.

Well, a lot has changed. I talked to her the other night and admitted to her I had put an anonymous Craigslist ad out looking for black men. Let me tell you, she was three kinds of pissed off and upset. I told her It was totally anonymous and used a fake email. I told her I was contacted by several men and had shared a headless photo of her tits with one man. Well, she was even more pissed. Anyway, it was a big blowout. I kind of expected this to happen and it helped bring the topic to a head. She knew I was serious that I would really like for this to happen. She in no uncertain terms told me it would never happen. So, for a couple of days it was pretty icy around the house.

I made my own video with the exact words of the video I previously posted, "What is Cuckold?." It was a little more tame with a beautiful young wife taking a large black cock. I got the balls up to broach the topic and asked her to watch the video. Even though she does not watch porn, she watched the video and then we talked. She reiterated that she was sorry and didn't want to disappoint me, but she just could not imagine being with another man. The thought made her stomach turn.

I pretty much thought the fantasy talk and use of dildos was over. Over the last couple of weeks she has tried really hard to make me happy in bed, which I appreciated. I didn't do my normal hot talk and such and sex was noticeably less spicy, even though she really tried heating things up. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoyed it and let her know that, but the intensity of our love making was less. I would normally talk and say things like: "You love sucking cock don't you.", "You have a hungry little pussy, that pussy loves big cock doesn't it." These things always seemed to make her hotter, although she may not admit it. Physically, it was fairly obvious.

Anyway, the other night she asked if I wanted to play with a toy. Wow, she is still open to that. So we started playing and she asked my how it looked. She asked, because she knows I love watching. I know she was goading me to talk sexy to her. So I started telling her how good her little pussy looked sucking on that big black cock." "Does you pussy love how this big black cock feels." "Do you love big cock." She starts moving her pussy and enjoying herself. Wow, we are back to the fantasy stage.

I really thought bbc fantasy was relegated to recesses of my mind, but we are now enjoying the dildos and fantasy talk again. I will just be happy with that. I know the seed is planted and may never grow beyond fantasy, but it does make our sex hot and I love fucking her with a variety of large dildos. Now that she knows what is really in my mind, it makes the fantasy a little more real. I will not push to make it real for a long long time, but she may slowly warm up to the idea. I know I can't push it anymore.

How is the progress going?

 

[BigBlackBull76]

How is the progress going?

Well, a lot has changed. I talked to her the other night and admitted to her I had put an anonymous Craigslist ad out looking for black men. Let me tell you, she was three kinds of pissed off and upset. I told her It was totally anonymous and used a fake email. I told her I was contacted by several men and had shared a headless photo of her tits with one man. Well, she was even more pissed. Anyway, it was a big blowout. I kind of expected this to happen and it helped bring the topic to a head. She knew I was serious that I would really like for this to happen. She in no uncertain terms told me it would never happen. So, for a couple of days it was pretty icy around the house.

I made my own video with the exact words of the video I previously posted, "What is Cuckold?." It was a little more tame with a beautiful young wife taking a large black cock. I got the balls up to broach the topic and asked her to watch the video. Even though she does not watch porn, she watched the video and then we talked. She reiterated that she was sorry and didn't want to disappoint me, but she just could not imagine being with another man. The thought made her stomach turn.

I pretty much thought the fantasy talk and use of dildos was over. Over the last couple of weeks she has tried really hard to make me happy in bed, which I appreciated. I didn't do my normal hot talk and such and sex was noticeably less spicy, even though she really tried heating things up. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoyed it and let her know that, but the intensity of our love making was less. I would normally talk and say things like: "You love sucking cock don't you.", "You have a hungry little pussy, that pussy loves big cock doesn't it." These things always seemed to make her hotter, although she may not admit it. Physically, it was fairly obvious.

Anyway, the other night she asked if I wanted to play with a toy. Wow, she is still open to that. So we started playing and she asked my how it looked. She asked, because she knows I love watching. I know she was goading me to talk sexy to her. So I started telling her how good her little pussy looked sucking on that big black cock." "Does you pussy love how this big black cock feels." "Do you love big cock." She starts moving her pussy and enjoying herself. Wow, we are back to the fantasy stage.

I really thought bbc fantasy was relegated to recesses of my mind, but we are now enjoying the dildos and fantasy talk again. I will just be happy with that. I know the seed is planted and may never grow beyond fantasy, but it does make our sex hot and I love fucking her with a variety of large dildos. Now that she knows what is really in my mind, it makes the fantasy a little more real. I will not push to make it real for a long long time, but she may slowly warm up to the idea. I know I can't push it anymore.

Deep down all woman in touch with their sexual selves (such as it appears with your wife you have described) have probably had wondered what it will feel like to take a BBC up in them. You need to keep working on her with the dildo, talking about being a slut for a BigBlackCock, and getting her ever so gradually to start watching Interacial porn. Start with the very soft porn, or erotic movies that doesn't show much actual penetration but just nude bodies like they do on those Cinemax late night movies. She needs to get more visuals in her mind, and for her to start to get more aroused when she watches the videos and thinks about them.

You have to progress things slowly at the woman's comfort level, and not just try and rush to the finish line. There have been many men who have been able to do it and it could take 1year, or it could take 10years but continue to work her. And finally one thing you are doing wrong and you are going to need to change, is just to hold out fucking her all together. You need to keep teasing her with the black dildo, talk about the fantasies, ask her to participate in the fantasies with the Black dildo, and hold out in fucking her.

After you get her so horny, and worked up she may concede finally just to appease you and finally live out the fantasy as well. If you can't hold-out from fucking her, then give up on the idea all together. When a woman becomes frustrated, their minds do begin to think about getting their satisfaction and needs met from someplace else (such as with the dildo) and may start to give your suggestions of taking BBC more serious consideration.

and got her some BBC on her own.

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[Guyton]

How is the progress going?

Well, we are having sex a lot. I continue to talk during sex. Recently, while she is sucking my cock, I started saying the following phrases: You suck cock so good. You are an amazing cocksucker. I would love to see you sucking a large cock and using all your cock sucking skills. I would love to see you enjoying sucking a big cock. Licking up and down the shaft and sucking on the head., etc. She has seemed to enjoy it. She gives subtle hints of more enthusiastic sucking when I am saying these things.

I have to admit, I am a lucky man, my wife loves to suck my cock so I get head at least 5 time a week. We have not played with the dildos much at all for the last month or so. The last couple of times it didn't seem to go very well. I will try it again this weekend with a lot of foreplay and get her really worked up, before filling her with a nice large black dildo.

Wish me luck! And thanks for asking.

 

[Jose]

Well, we are having sex a lot. I continue to talk during sex. Recently, while she is sucking my cock, I started saying the following phrases: You suck cock so good. You are an amazing cocksucker. I would love to see you sucking a large cock and using all your cock sucking skills. I would love to see you enjoying sucking a big cock. Licking up and down the shaft and sucking on the head., etc. She has seemed to enjoy it. She gives subtle hints of more enthusiastic sucking when I am saying these things.

I have to admit, I am a lucky man, my wife loves to suck my cock so I get head at least 5 time a week. We have not played with the dildos much at all for the last month or so. The last couple of times it didn't seem to go very well. I will try it again this weekend with a lot of foreplay and get her really worked up, before filling her with a nice large black dildo.

Wish me luck! And thanks for asking.

Thanks for the update. Hopefully your weekend will be even more exciting for you . See if she can give you an answer when you tell her those phrases.

 

[Jose]

How is your progress going? Have you made the jump?

 

[Guyton]

How is your progress going? Have you made the jump?

Things are going pretty well right now. I still talk a lot when we have sex. I am really positive in telling her how good she is and how sexy she is and how she pleases me.

We have a signal of when I want to break out the dildos. I ask her if we can, "play with the pussy." She knows I want to use the toys on her. In the past I was working my way to the largest dildo I could fit. Now I tend to stick with Mr. Marcus and DJ 8" Realistic. They are both nice size cocks and are realistic. Without her knowledge, I video taped three hour long sessions of her taking various dildos. I now love to watch the video and hear her moan and take those long black cocks. I will get the dildo out and stroke it with my hand to simulate what I am seeing on screen to get a feel for what she is experiencing in the size of that cock. I like holding it up to my cock and get a feel for the size difference.

I know my wife loves taking the black dildos, but due to her shyness and conservative values, she will not let loose and just totally let go. I think she feels guilty and maybe a little dirty. I am trying to counterbalance these emotions and feelings while I am working those dildos into her. I always wait until I know she is enjoying the dildo and I start with a banter of comments: Your pussy looks so sexy with that large black cock sliding in and out. You love that big black cock don't you? Savor that cock, enjoy that big dick. He is loving your sweet little white pussy. Look at how that sweet white pussy sucks that big black cock. Tell me you love that cock. Does that pussy feel good.

Well, she always tends to get hot with these comments. Her breathing changes and she starts moving her pussy to encourage faster strokes. So, for now I am slowly pushing forward and continue to talk about bbc during sex. I think over the years she may come around. It maybe weeks, years, or never.

I want to sit down and have a heart to heart with her and discuss the fantasy. I would like to start setting up fantasies with her. Start early in the day and before going to work start kissing her and tell you have a couple friends coming over tonight and you would like her to entertain them. Blindfold her and start feeding her the fantasy. Eat her pussy and tell her your friends should be there any moment. Oh! By the way, my friends are both black and they say they never had white pussy and they are outrageously excited about getting some. Do you want some big black cock. I think I heard a car door. Is that hungry little pussy excited to suck on some big black dick.

You get the idea. Lead her through the whole scenario describing what they are saying and doing to her. All they way to simulating the final moment when you describe and simulate him dumping his load into her.

I think that would go far in progressing us another step. I just got to chat with her and see if she would like to try and set some simple ground rules.

I have a very vivid imagination and could keep it exciting and new for a very long time. I hope as this becomes routine, talking about scenarios, it would open the pathway for a conversation about progressing to the real thing.

So, long story short, we are still in the game and not dead in the water yet.

 

[Jose]

Things are going pretty well right now. I still talk a lot when we have sex. I am really positive in telling her how good she is and how sexy she is and how she pleases me.

We have a signal of when I want to break out the dildos. I ask her if we can, "play with the pussy." She knows I want to use the toys on her. In the past I was working my way to the largest dildo I could fit. Now I tend to stick with Mr. Marcus and DJ 8" Realistic. They are both nice size cocks and are realistic. Without her knowledge, I video taped three hour long sessions of her taking various dildos. I now love to watch the video and hear her moan and take those long black cocks. I will get the dildo out and stroke it with my hand to simulate what I am seeing on screen to get a feel for what she is experiencing in the size of that cock. I like holding it up to my cock and get a feel for the size difference.

I know my wife loves taking the black dildos, but due to her shyness and conservative values, she will not let loose and just totally let go. I think she feels guilty and maybe a little dirty. I am trying to counterbalance these emotions and feelings while I am working those dildos into her. I always wait until I know she is enjoying the dildo and I start with a banter of comments: Your pussy looks so sexy with that large black cock sliding in and out. You love that big black cock don't you? Savor that cock, enjoy that big dick. He is loving your sweet little white pussy. Look at how that sweet white pussy sucks that big black cock. Tell me you love that cock. Does that pussy feel good.

Well, she always tends to get hot with these comments. Her breathing changes and she starts moving her pussy to encourage faster strokes. So, for now I am slowly pushing forward and continue to talk about bbc during sex. I think over the years she may come around. It maybe weeks, years, or never.

I want to sit down and have a heart to heart with her and discuss the fantasy. I would like to start setting up fantasies with her. Start early in the day and before going to work start kissing her and tell you have a couple friends coming over tonight and you would like her to entertain them. Blindfold her and start feeding her the fantasy. Eat her pussy and tell her your friends should be there any moment. Oh! By the way, my friends are both black and they say they never had white pussy and they are outrageously excited about getting some. Do you want some big black cock. I think I heard a car door. Is that hungry little pussy excited to suck on some big black dick.

You get the idea. Lead her through the whole scenario describing what they are saying and doing to her. All they way to simulating the final moment when you describe and simulate him dumping his load into her.

I think that would go far in progressing us another step. I just got to chat with her and see if she would like to try and set some simple ground rules.

I have a very vivid imagination and could keep it exciting and new for a very long time. I hope as this becomes routine, talking about scenarios, it would open the pathway for a conversation about progressing to the real thing.

So, long story short, we are still in the game and not dead in the water yet.

Great ideas! She may be ready sooner than you think. Thank you and keep us posted.

 

[phil122]

You could try to get her warmed up to the idea of porn with some written porn or artistic interracial images. You can find something that's not too hardcore, like Black Gold, Angela's Plan, or Allison's Introduction to the Wonderful World of Interracial Swinging. That might help get her into porn, which might help her take the leap.

 

[Guyton]

You could try to get her warmed up to the idea of porn with some written porn or artistic interracial images. You can find something that's not too hardcore, like Black Gold, Angela's Plan, or Allison's Introduction to the Wonderful World of Interracial Swinging. That might help get her into porn, which might help her take the leap.

What I am doing right now is downloading cuckold porn and interracial porn and picking the scenes I want and put them together in a video that I can stream to the tv. I am making three videos that are about 4 hours long. Just putting together lots of clips. One video is focused on Mr Marcus fucking multiple women. We have a Mr Marcus dildo. I thought it would be fun to get out the dildo and cue up the video. Have her facing the TV doggie style over a cushion and mimic some of the motions on the TV. I think that would be hot.

I have also made a couple with just cuckold and interracial themes. If she liked it, I could continue to do this or purchase higher quality DVDs. Anyone have a good source for cuckold and or interracial porn. For her sake, I am more interested in single partner vids without anal. It would be real nice if all the women were not 18-25 and skinny. I would like the porn to feature normal women with normal bodies. My wife is a little self conscious doesn't not want me comparing her to others. Watching videos with hot young girls will probably turn her off as she will not want me to see these beautiful girls and compare them to her. Of course she is wrong, my wife is beautiful, but she is not 18 any more and has the body of a 50 year old.

I plan on talking to her this week. I want to reiterate what cuckold is and my fantasy to her. Tell her that I truly want to see her with a bbc, but am willing to keep it just fantasy with a hint of possibility. She will reject the idea again. I will then ask what are the limits. I would like to clarify what she is willing to do. Through this discussion I will bring up a variety of scenerios.

Are you ok with:

• Discuss the fantasy - Enhance marriage and relationship.
• Question: Is there any element of this fantasy that excites you personally.
  
• Discuss acting out fantasy. I could be involved or just watch. I would rather just watch unless you want me to join in. She will likely refuse to take a real bbc.
  
• If just fantasy - what are ground rules.
  
• Can we use the black dildos? Do you like using them?
• During sex can I fantasy talk about the dildos and how they feel and look while using them on you.
• Fantasy talk about multiple scenarios or encounters with a real cock. Sort of role play.
  • Blind fold her and using a black dildo and talk her through the fantasy as if a real man. Tell her what he sees and what he is thinking as he is fucking her.
  • Also fantasy setup. In the morning tell her I have a couple of guys I met at a business meeting and after a couple of drinks we were talking about the wives and how horny they were and that they never get any. I confessed that I was lucky and that my wife loves to suck my cock 4-5 times a week. Of course they didn't believe me so I invited them over tonight. I told them to come over for dinner tonight and if they were nice my wife might help them out if they were very good. Basically tell her a scenario and tease her about it all day. Give her a text saying the guys can't wait to see you tonight. Did I tell you they were both black. etc.
• Can we watch cuckold/interracial videos?
• Can I take a couple pictures?
• Can I take a video?
• Blindfolds?
• Restraints?
• Exactly what is legal, because I don't want to keep doing and saying things that you don't enjoy. This fantasy should enhance our marriage.

 

[Chip]

There is an awful lot to read here

 

[Guyton]

There is an awful lot to read here

Hmm! Forum!

 

[Guyton]

Well, here is another update. I told her I wanted to talk to her about my fantasy one morning and I again spilled my heart. I told her, I was frustrated because of the lack of communication. It was in the morning before work and after I talked for about 20 minutes she had to go. I again was left hanging without any communication from her. I waited for two days and she avoided the conversation.

So, I was very frustrated with our progress and not knowing where we stood. If you been reading my threads, you will know I talk a lot during sex. Encouraging her and telling her that she looks great, how great she is at sucking cock, how good her pussy feels, etc. I also will bring in bbc into the talk. She will respond favorably from the talk in her actions, but will not talk herself. The other day, as she was sucking my cock, I was telling her how good she was doing and that she could please any man with her skills. Then I told her I would love to watch her use her cock sucking skills on a large black cock. She abruptly stopped and angrily said she would never do that and it grosses her out. Well, ok sucking bbc was out for now.

This stimulated my previous post you see above. I was frustrated about what is legal. I understand that sucking bbc is out, but she seemed to like the black dildo play and my talk. Is that ok or what. So I was disappointed and frustrated and unsure where we were at, thus the previous post. So, after waiting three days and her not saying a word about the big purple elephant in the room, I broke the silence and expressed my anger for her lack of communication and she agreed to talk the following night. As you see from the previous post, I had an outline of the talk.

Well, it didn't go good. My first questions was, "Is there any aspect of the bbc fantasy that turns you on." Her response was she liked what it did for me, but no aspect of it did anything for her. I asked her, what about larger cocks? She again responded that she liked that I enjoyed watching her body as I used the dildos on her and it turned her on, but the larger cock didn't do anything for her. Now, understand, I have videos of us using the dildo and her getting off on them in no uncertain terms. So, I am at a loss. My turn on is that she likes it, if she doesn't, it loses all the thrill to me. I get off on her getting off on it.

I told her I was glad that she told me and the next day I removed all the dildos and sex toys from the house and stored them. She was a little surprised and said she thought I enjoyed them. I stated, "I enjoyed them, because I thought you were getting off on them and that's what gets me off." "Now, I know you don't get off on them, they no longer do anything for me." I told her a scenerio, so she could understand. If I cooked a meal that you said you really loved, I would keep cooking that meal for you and would enjoy doing it. Once, I find out you were saying that just to be nice, I would no longer enjoy cooking that meal for you. Likewise, using dildos has also lost its fun.

I continued to explain, I no longer would be sharing the fantasy or talking about big cock during sex. Why would I share something that only I get off on. What fun is that. Well, she was disappointed that I was disappointed. I explained that I was glad to know, so now at least I am not forsing things on her that only I enjoy and now I know, I don't enjoy it either. I told her I will still have the fantasy, but it is now back into my secret fantasy life and it would not be shared. She really didn't like the turn of events, but it is what it is.

So now, the last two times she initiated sex, I resisted getting an erection. She sucked my cock like a pro and I was able to stay soft. This has got her a little worried. People have advised me to decrease her satisfaction with our sex. I don't know how long I can hold out and if this is even the right path.

I have not got a lot of response from my thread, but I hope some will give me some input. I may just have to give up on this obsession.

 

[fredjac]

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[H&Rmiller]

Any progress?

 

[Guyton]

Well, last night, after two previous failures to get me erect she was determined not to fail. She sent me a text with two topless pictures with the caption, "Needing your hands all over me and your hard dick in me. Needing it!" Wow, that is the first time my wife ever used the word "dick", written or verbal. Anyway, at about 9pm she went and took a bath. That is usually a signal that she wants some serious action. Once in bed, she was on it, talking and teasing me as she sucked my hard cock. After sucking me for a while she got up and got in doggie position and said she wanted it bad. Of course I gave it to her good. Suddenly, she shifted and got out of bed and closed the door and turned on the lights and got back into position. She started asking me how I liked watching and did she look good. To say the least, I pounded her pussy and she was very vocal, which is unusual. She was really making extra effort to get me off and she succeeded with great success. That was about midnight, I woke up at 5:11 am with an erection and took her again. She was loving it. So, I failed miserably in holding out.

I am a lucky man. My wife sucks my cock at least 5 times a week and loves to do it. I will play it cool and see how things progress.

Again, thanks for asking!