We don't have any experience and we are not really sure how to go about this. Ideally we'd like to meet a patient, straight, married black gentleman who wants to spend the time to get to know us and make the wife comfortable. Preferable someone 30-45 seeking committed long term fun. He will need to be patient with us as we have no experience at this. It is going to take a lot of time and effort. A tall, good looking man with an athletic build and a big penis is required.