Need Real Advice (not fantasy stuff)

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Wife4Black77, Jun 12, 2015.

  1. Wife4Black77

    Wife4Black77 Active Member

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    I've been wanting to see my cute, sexy petite wife fuck a well hung black stud for so long. I told my wife about my fantasy before we got married. She was very understanding, never called me a freak or got pissed or grossed out but just said simply that wasn't her fantasy. That was 14 years ago. In the interim I have shown her tons of IR porn (video and pictures), had her cruise the bull photos (which seem to have disappeared from the site) and "said if you had to choose one which would it be?" She pointed to a very well hung guy who was from Jamaica. That was hot. Over the course of those 14 years I have bought her a ton of toys, many of them big and black and she's loved the experience. There have been times where she's been in a sexual frenzy and pretty much anything goes. But generally speaking when it comes down to reality she reverts back to cute conservative little wife.

    When I picture hooking something up its always been when we are out of town for two reasons. First because when we are away from our house, kids, community she totally relaxes and gets adventurous/horny etc. last time we stayed out of town but still in the Bay Area, she fucked me senseless. I literally couldn't keep up with her sex drive. At one point while we were fucking I said I pictured me and a well hung black guy fucking her together. She took our big black vibrator and started to slide it in and out of her pussy while saying, "So, yeah he'd fuck me from behind while I suck your dick. She got into that. Same trip we were both in the pool and she headed back to the room. When she came out she called me over and whispered that she wasn't wearing any bra or panties, she had a tight pink top and it was obvious she wasn't wearing a bra with her erect nipples. She had some loose workout shorts on and sat down on a lounge chair. I came over later and fingered her while another couple watched. So to recap she really lets loose away from our place.

    The second reason I thought we'd hook something up out of town? Because we don't live in a huge town. And we both know a lot of people through our kids school, work, volunteer activities etc. If we made this happen and people find out our marriage would be torched as would our family. Our kids would be
     
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  2. Wife4Black77

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    Devastated. It would really make our lives very, very hard.

    All that said, I get a message from a good looking, fit, well hung black guy who said he loved my wife's profile pic. I check to see where he lives and it looks like he lives near us. As a matter of fact, I work out at the same gym as this guy. I was hugely turned on, especially considering my wife is thinking we should get a family membership and she will switch gyms. I picture this guy hitting on my wife and get an instant hard on. I think about grabbing a beer with the guy and working out a plan. But then reality hits and I know we couldn't play anywhere near home, and if my wife knew he was local it might be really tough because she would worry about running into him at the store, or out with our kids, etc.
    Now I know some guys on here will spout some stuff about, "let the world know that your wife is now the 'property' of the black man. Assume your natural place as a weak, inadequate white Boi. He should move in and knock up your wife, etc." this is real life shit, real lives at stake. I want this so bad I can taste it but should I just wait to hook something up in another town while we are away just the two of us? I welcome all thoughtful advice. Thanks.
     
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  3. Robertano

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    Seems like you are moving even if very slowly in the correct direction and that you soon hopefully at last will make it reality. With that said though I recommend you to wait and find another suitable Bull outside of your small town, mainly for your kids sake and what you are risking.
     
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  4. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    SanFran and California are big places, Wife4 ... why not check out the swing clubs that are available in your state, visit one or two during their hospitality nights or events. There is usually no nudity or swinging during these events; its to help people meet and hook up. You could call the owners, and/or visit the facilities. Anyone you meet at these aren't going to be talking, I don't think. But, you don't have to choose one that's local; plenty of clubs up and down the California coast.
    http://www.swinglifestyle.com/swingers/clubs/california/
    Mac
     
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  5. bigblackbull76

    bigblackbull76 My BBC would bodyslam KingKong off top the Empire Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    @Wife4Black77 - I'm surprised your struggling with this question where you've already stated the risk factors involved.

    Have you never heard the saying "don't eat where you shit at"? Meet with someone away and out of your town to mitigate the risks, simple and plain and post a message on your profile to let local men know you will not arrange any meetings with anyone who may live within a 50mile radius to you. That will solve both problems and help you avoid the temptation of meeting with this guy at the gym.

    Mac-man provided a good suggestion too. I've met many couples who have set up play dates far away from the critical eye of their small town small-minded nosy neighbors where everyone knows each other's business and it works out very successful for them. They have their fun away from home and return back and assume their normal roles as Mr. And Mrs. Goody twoshoes with no one suspecting a thing but I know how big of a slut that Hotwife is and her hubby's love for watching a real Bull in action.

    Now you have your instructions, get to work with the plans and stop wasting time debating over this.

    ~BBB76
     
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  6. BBCnATX

    BBCnATX Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    There are MANY different scenarios within this lifestyle that I've encountered:

    Some couples do not mind meeting locally at a hotel room within the town/city radius for a few hours. Obviously trust and professionalism are key.

    Some prefer to make it an 'event' and plan a time/place getaway during an overnight a bit out of town. I meet with a Hispanic couple one every two months like this.

    Some are more daring and will host right in there home late night while the kids are asleep. This was a cuckold couple I encountered.

    And SOME, will make the Bull a part of their normal life as a friend and have them stay overnight as a 'guest' (sounds extreme but it happened).

    And there are some who go out of town completely to keep these situations separate from 'reality'.

    It seems that everyone needs to decide where they fall within the Lifestyle spectrum. ;)
     
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  7. BBCnATX

    BBCnATX Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    But.... on the flip side...REALLY??? 14 years man, seriously?? Thats a long fucking time to be harboring YOUR IR fantasies. Is it safe to say that SHE really doesn't want to do this but loves to feed Your fantasy just because she loves you and makes You happy?? Be careful what you wish for. Plenty of posts on this website with regretful husbands. :-/
     
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