I'm looking for ideas to help get her into the idea of being a Hot GF
....Its not as simple as
ALL THAT,
MyBlondeGF. However, I can say that IF you so desire more serious help (not random suggestions), provide the forum readers with more info about you and your girlfriend, ok. You're new (welcome, sir) so take a little bit of effort in filling out your profile.
....Things we like to know are:
how old are the 2 of you, how long together
ever fantasy play and if so doing what,
ever involved a 3rd party in your sex play,
what are her sexual fantasies; we know what yours are,
how much experience do you have in sharing your ladies,
how many men do you think she's been with, etc ....
This type of info tells us whether we simply need to fertilize your ideas OR do a complete 'start-to-finish' sod job ... lol!
....Also, your Q is one that is asked OFTEN in this forum ... so take advantage of the archives if you can as you await posts from others to your own Q.