Hi I need help to convert my wife to black dick in Sydney Australia any help or advice appreciated
Need help to convert my wife to to bbc Sydney
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Ease her into it. Talk to her about it but don't push. She may be open to the idea after talking to her the first time but then again, she may have some reserves as well. Perhaps watch a video (not just interracial sex) but be sure to get one that does have an interracial scene and watch it all the way through. You could mention how hot you think that looks when the scene comes up and tell her you'd love to see her like that. If she responds positively, then continue to take it slow for a bit and see if she takes the lead after a bit. If you find that she's open to the idea (or at least open to talking about it) then talk about it in bed and see how her body reacts when you do. After a bit, watch less vanilla porn and start adding more interracial into the rotation. I'd stay away from gangbangs or anything rough. If she's already a shy or cautious woman, then it may be best to stick to one on one scenes and definitely some cuckold scenes.
If you feel that you and her are solid in terms of trust and your overall relationship is pretty much rock solid, then I say go for it. She needs to know that at the end of the day, you love her and that no matter the outcome, she is always the most important thing to you. She needs to know that if she does this, you won't end up mad or resent her once you see it happen. I've spoken with several people who have mentioned that they kinda lost it when everything was said and done (not just IR but all types of situations where their other half sleeps with someone else). At the end of the day, if she feels like she's your one and only and you do infact trust her completely, it will definitely make the transition much easier in my opinion. Above all else, if something goes down that you weren't cool about, it's best to take a step back and remember that you wanted this. Do everything in your control not to pass any blame on her or she will definitely have a sour taste about doing it again (at least with you around).
Buy her a SOFT toy but nothing waaaay too big. I'd suggest something in the 8 or 9 inch range. A lot of dildos out there are hard and even though we may think its fine, to many women, it doesn't feel that great and seems too unnatural. There are several that feel like a soft rubber rather than rock hard plastics. If she likes being "serviced", use the toy when you do but go easy on her. She might not be used to it and after a short time, she will no doubt lead you in the direction she wants you to go with it in terms of speed and intensity.
If she's a private girl and likes privacy about her life and her life affairs (no pun intended), I'd suggest reassuring her that it stays strictly between you and her. If and when she decides to be a bit more open with the lifestyle one day, then so be it but I'd let her lead the way since she's the one that needs to be comfortable with it all.
Lastly, if you both end up going in this direction, I'd suggest being safe and make sure both you and her and her new date all get tested to put all minds at ease first. There are a lot of people on both ends (both couples looking and black men) so take the time to be selective on who you talk to. Take the time to really see where they're at in terms of level of seriousness and what their intentions/expectations are so no one wastes each others time. Definitely open a solid dialogue with them and a few pics back and forth are in order but I'd suggest keeping the pics with faces vs bodies separately when it comes to nudes to be on the safe side. Once you establish a trust with someone, stick to your word and do everything in your power to keep your end up so not to turn them off. Sadly, it's one thing that happens a lot and it sucks for both you and your wife and for the men she's talking to as well.
These are just my opinions and what I've personally found. I could be way off but what I've written here works for us and has for several years. Good luck!
If you feel that you and her are solid in terms of trust and your overall relationship is pretty much rock solid, then I say go for it. She needs to know that at the end of the day, you love her and that no matter the outcome, she is always the most important thing to you. She needs to know that if she does this, you won't end up mad or resent her once you see it happen. I've spoken with several people who have mentioned that they kinda lost it when everything was said and done (not just IR but all types of situations where their other half sleeps with someone else). At the end of the day, if she feels like she's your one and only and you do infact trust her completely, it will definitely make the transition much easier in my opinion. Above all else, if something goes down that you weren't cool about, it's best to take a step back and remember that you wanted this. Do everything in your control not to pass any blame on her or she will definitely have a sour taste about doing it again (at least with you around).
Buy her a SOFT toy but nothing waaaay too big. I'd suggest something in the 8 or 9 inch range. A lot of dildos out there are hard and even though we may think its fine, to many women, it doesn't feel that great and seems too unnatural. There are several that feel like a soft rubber rather than rock hard plastics. If she likes being "serviced", use the toy when you do but go easy on her. She might not be used to it and after a short time, she will no doubt lead you in the direction she wants you to go with it in terms of speed and intensity.
If she's a private girl and likes privacy about her life and her life affairs (no pun intended), I'd suggest reassuring her that it stays strictly between you and her. If and when she decides to be a bit more open with the lifestyle one day, then so be it but I'd let her lead the way since she's the one that needs to be comfortable with it all.
Lastly, if you both end up going in this direction, I'd suggest being safe and make sure both you and her and her new date all get tested to put all minds at ease first. There are a lot of people on both ends (both couples looking and black men) so take the time to be selective on who you talk to. Take the time to really see where they're at in terms of level of seriousness and what their intentions/expectations are so no one wastes each others time. Definitely open a solid dialogue with them and a few pics back and forth are in order but I'd suggest keeping the pics with faces vs bodies separately when it comes to nudes to be on the safe side. Once you establish a trust with someone, stick to your word and do everything in your power to keep your end up so not to turn them off. Sadly, it's one thing that happens a lot and it sucks for both you and your wife and for the men she's talking to as well.
These are just my opinions and what I've personally found. I could be way off but what I've written here works for us and has for several years. Good luck!
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Easy…find someone with a good personality someone who can make her laugh. Basically the black version of you…or get a ticket and I’ll be there lol. But take her out places to the gym, basketball courts, clubs, where it’s more urban. Or take her to a different country
If your wife/gf won't hear your sexual fantasy, either she doesn't respect/love you or there's no trust between you.
Either you have the balls to say what's on your mind to her, or you are simply wasting your time here
If you can't talk to her about your sexual fantasy, how are you expecting others to convince her?
