Been married 20 years & been tossing this fantasy into a lifestyle for at least 15 of it. Not swingers but your typical mid aged white suburban couple..kids in schools. Blah blah blah. I've introduced my wife to a couple of my friends who I had explained what she was wanting & they totally did just that. Different times different men. I've given her all the green lights to seek out a bull on hedcown with nothing shown in return. She is cool with me setting it up but hasn't any desire to show her side of what she wants other than pillow talk between her n I..never any actual search or even replies to message's on here. I did see the vids of the last guy & her date & he was quite large & wasn't at all gentle but she did as told & came home soaked asking for more.. What's up with that?