My wife, after some discussion, went black. We've been married 15 years, 5 years ago we decided to spice things up and her going black did the trick. We've talked about it and all it is is just the sex. 5 years later the same black guy is still fucking her about once a week or so. He has a very thick 10" and his cock takes control of her every time they have sex. And yes - I love watching them - a real live turn on. I have 10" myself, just not as thick as his. I would suggest you 2 set down, get all the understanding you 2 need about doing it, then - go for it without hesitation. Just get that understanding first. Hopefully like with us, your first experience will be a good one. Make sure the guy is open minded and that he's thick enough to fill her beyond her wildest imagination - she'd love it and you'll love watching a black cock take control of her mentally and physically. But you 2 must have the understanding that it's just sex - nothing more.