I have had a fantasy of watching my cute little wife with a well hung black guy since we got together. She enjoys her big black vibrator, and we have some hot sex talk. She's not really into IR porn (or any porn for that matter) unless I really have her ramped up sexually first then she gets off on it (IR). She is well aware of my fantasy but to date has been opposed to doing it in real life. She hates the idea of me setting anything up and she doesn't think black guys would find her sexy (BS!). We have two kids so our free/play time is limited. We live in a very white community in the San Francisco Bay Area so we have little to no contact with black guys. When her and I get away for a weekend she really relaxes and gets pretty wild, sexy/horny. But again she's totally against a set up, and I have been unable to get a black male to work with me to seduce her. During our last weekend away in Tiburon, I was using her black toy on her and told her I wish instead of the drunk girls and guy (all white) in the jacuzzi with us earlier I wish there was some hot black stud who was coming on to her. She said, "I don't think a black guy would come on to me." I assured her many would which got her hot. She then said, "would you like it if I sucked your cock while a big black guy fucked me?" The answer was obvious! When we were out at the pool in the late afternoon she got cold in her swimsuit so she went back to our room to change. She came back out with a tight (and thin/somewhat see through) pink top with no bra and short shorts with no panties. I started to finger her poolside but she got a little self conscious because another couple was out there and she said they were watching. Anyway it was a fun weekend where I wish I could have had a black guy there to assist me with my wife. For the record she is petite, 5'2" 114 pounds, great ass and tits 34C, brown hair and eyes.... 48 but in good shape and looks much younger. Ok....sorry for the detour.... Last night my wife mentioned to me a concert coming up at Shoreline Amphitheater (we just saw Journey et. Al. There a few weeks ago) with Snoop Dogg, Warren G, Ice Cube and The Game. My wife is more Top 40 than I am, but I have some Snoop on my iPod. But this was unusual out of all the concerts coming up that she would mention this one. I immediately saw the possibilities so I said, "Hey that might be fun!" She was unsure because thought it would be an F-Bomb fest. I told her there might be more second hand pot smoke than our last concert which might upset her "straight laced" persona. Tongue in cheek she said, "yeah that's a concern, rrriiiiggghhhhtttt." So I started looking into it and listening to all the artists on YouTube ..... Surprisingly I liked most everything. But my big concern, and I'm sure it is for my wife as well, might we be the only white people there? How would we be received? If my wife starts flirting (or the black guys flirting with her) will black women in attendance get pissed, rude, and vocal or worse? My wife expressed some concern years ago about going to a predominantly black dance club because she feared black women would want to beat her ass. So the advice I am looking for, is it too risky for a middle aged white couple to go to this concert to have a good time? Could it turn into a really bad experience? We're both pretty white bread/unhip style wise....what could we wear to blend in the best while not making (bigger?) fools of ourselves? I honestly wish our area was more diverse because it would be easier to make friends with black guys and hook something up that way. I had a group of guys I was on a sports team with in a league for years and one of my teammates was a big black guy who was clearly a bull based on his email (bull in the name) and the stories he would tell about married white ladies propositioning him. But my wife met him briefly and it appeared she wasn't attracted to him, plus he had his wife and kid with him at the time. Lastly it was VERY likely hooking up with him would be common knowledge which was completely out of the question. Sorry for the ramble. Appreciate some REAL advice here not fantasy "pink unicorns are real" stuff. Thanks.