Need advice on convincing my wife to try BBC

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I have been telling my wife for about the last year my biggest fantasy was to see her fucked by a BBC. she would usually get mad at me and tell me I'm crazy and she would never have sex with anyone else (i was her first and her only so far). i have tried getting her to watch interracial porn which she would tell me no way, until last month. She finally agreed to watch an interracial porn with me but we have to turn it off if she didn't like it. well we started watching the porn together and while they were making out (about 2 min into the porn) she said she didn't like it and we needed to turn it off. I would like to hear advice on how to get my wife more interested?

A little about us, we are both under 30 and have been together for 10 years. she has never had sex with anyone else.
 
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I would like to hear advice on how to get my wife more interested?
I have to assume that you wish to do no damage or harm to your marriage or relationship with your wife, right?
With that in mind, do NOT be devious with this desire; for one, if you encourage her to cheat simply by having someone attempt to seduce her, it
puts you almost in a no win situation, ok?
...................#1 If it is successful, you find out that your wife will do things behind your back, and establishes a grain of distrust in her.
..................#2 if it fails, and she determines what you tried to do, it does the same thing with her as far as trusting you.
..................#3 if she does it, and she likes it, she may begin seeing other men for sex without your knowledge
..................#4 if she does it, she may like it, thank you, and your sexual experiences are enhanced.
Now, do you like those ODDS? .... 1:4 chance that it works out the way YOU desire it to work? I wouldn't IF I desired no hard to my marriage.
You're asking an awful lot from her by the fact that she's been ONLY with you throughout your marriage. You might desire to leave "well enough alone" until your marriage has matured a bit more.
Start out by finding out what HER sexual fantasies ARE ... not try to fulfill YOURS first. She's taking ALL the risk ... injury, disease, broken marriage, etc ... and you really don't know how you will respond when it physically happens.
Do you roll play sexual fantasies? If not, there's the initial step ... stimulating her sexual interests.
Speaking of sexual interests, if being with other men is not her thing ... why expect her to do that for you? Does she have any issues with black men ... afraid of them, biased, etc? Getting her to cross racial barriers AND violate her vows of marriage is one giant leap for her, I'm sure. She gets angry probably because she THINKS you may be getting bored with her OR because you may ask for reciprocation later ... the ladies don't have near the desire to share their men.
So, you need a starting point, and it appears you're wishing to jump to chapter 12 and skip all the homework and study in the other chapters. Be patient with her. Often there's no magic bullet ... its all about TRUST.
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I have been telling my wife for about the last year my biggest fantasy was to see her fucked by a BBC. she would usually get mad at me and tell me I'm crazy and she would never have sex with anyone else (i was her first and her only so far). i have tried getting her to watch interracial porn which she would tell me no way, until last month. She finally agreed to watch an interracial porn with me but we have to turn it off if she didn't like it. well we started watching the porn together and while they were making out (about 2 min into the porn) she said she didn't like it and we needed to turn it off. I would like to hear advice on how to get my wife more interested?

A little about us, we are both under 30 and have been together for 10 years. she has never had sex with anyone else.
I am in the same situation with mu wife....for years I've been trying to convince her...
 
I have been telling my wife for about the last year my biggest fantasy was to see her fucked by a BBC. she would usually get mad at me and tell me I'm crazy and she would never have sex with anyone else (i was her first and her only so far). i have tried getting her to watch interracial porn which she would tell me no way, until last month. She finally agreed to watch an interracial porn with me but we have to turn it off if she didn't like it. well we started watching the porn together and while they were making out (about 2 min into the porn) she said she didn't like it and we needed to turn it off. I would like to hear advice on how to get my wife more interested?

A little about us, we are both under 30 and have been together for 10 years. she has never had sex with anyone else.
Tread slowly some women strictly commiited relation. Then yet you mite unleash a bbc freak mite be what you expected
 
I dont believe in rules and there are no special rules in this game,you know your wife well,observe her and know her fantasies, you also need to be patient with her and do not bug her about it so much,it is a step by step solution,which you also have to lead her to the direction you want to go with love and care.

i will advice you continue watching the porn with her but with a play list of both white and black actors.

my Two tip

Most women love dancing.A sexy night dress, a good night club with some good black guys can do some trick.if she drinks,a little ******* can boast her confidence,pls let her be free to dance with anyone in the club.i trust my black guys they dont fail except if she becomes rude:)

You can also surprise her with a special sensual massage by a black male masseur either at home or in the massage palour. she doesn't have to know about the whole situation and you dont have to be there.but her reaction after we tell you if she is interested or not.

adiós
 
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I dont believe in rules and there are no special rules in this game,you know you wife well,observe her and know her fantasies you also need to be patience with her and do not bug her about it so much,it is a step by step solution,which you also have to lead her to the direction you want to go with love and care.

i will advice you continue watching the porn with her but with a play list of both white and black actors.

my Two tip

Most women love dancing.A sexy night dress, a good night club with some good black guys can do some trick.if she drinks,a little ******* can boast her confidence,pls let her be free to dance with anyone in the club.i trust my black guys they dont fail except if she becomes rude:)

You can also surprise her with a special sensual massage by a black male masseur either at home or in the massage palour. she doesn't have to know about the whole situation and you dont have to be there.but her reaction after we tell you if she is interested or not.

adiós
Thank you!
 
I have been telling my wife for about the last year my biggest fantasy was to see her fucked by a BBC. she would usually get mad at me and tell me I'm crazy and she would never have sex with anyone else (i was her first and her only so far). i have tried getting her to watch interracial porn which she would tell me no way, until last month. She finally agreed to watch an interracial porn with me but we have to turn it off if she didn't like it. well we started watching the porn together and while they were making out (about 2 min into the porn) she said she didn't like it and we needed to turn it off. I would like to hear advice on how to get my wife more interested?

A little about us, we are both under 30 and have been together for 10 years. she has never had sex with anyone else.
From one dude to another, I was in the same situation and ran across a thread similar to this and a guy had mentioned how this certain book did wonders for him. So I went on amazon and took a shot. It worked! Written for the female in mind, and opens the mind to exploration with bbc in a hotwifing, cuck styled fantasy story. I read it fast when it came in the mail, honestly I was like this is stupid. But it had some mojo to it. Good luck! FB5E0590-106E-4639-99A1-16277DC66315.jpeg
 
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