The myths and mysteries around the Female Orgasm - Part One*
One of the greatest mysteries of all time for mankind would be what is the female orgasm and are all of them the same? Also is the 'G-Spot' a myth or a fact? I present this article for informational, educational, and conversational purposes among the community here.
Its easy for everyone to know and describe what a male orgasm is as we can see it when a man ejaculates, his body contracts till he is paralyzed, then he goes limp. But for women how does a women even know she is or can have an orgasm much less a man who can’t actually see it? Its commonly reported that more than 50% of women say they fake orgasms which men never even know that a woman is doing it. Men almost never fake an orgasm and if they did a woman would know anyway cause they wouldn’t see or feel the man actually ejaculate.
In addition, why is it that orgasms are that much more difficult for a straight woman who is in a relationship with a man than it is for a woman who is a lesbian? According to a study conducted by (s)experts of women in the US & France, 95% of men in heterosexual relationships whether from dating or in a marriage actually cum during intercourse compared to only 65% for heterosexual women which is terrible. WTF - fellas.
Chart REF: https://www.netflix.com/title/80216752/ “EP 16. The Female Orgasm"
However 86% of lesbian gay women report being able to cum during their sexual encounters in comparison with only 65% of the time with a man(see chart below). Clearly studies show that lesbian women are doing something right. Well why is that fellas?
Chart REF: https://www.netflix.com/title/80216752/ “EP 16. The Female Orgasm"
I’ve heard first hand from many women about this in that they brag how women eat pussy better than men. Well not to be out-done because I am an extremely competitive person as well as being a man and Bull of men I wasn’t going to stand for being outdone by a woman in pleasing a woman. This article will deep dive into my own lack of knowledge (ignorance), personal learning from great master teachers (all women), experimenting, and finally mastering the art of how to make a women orgasm and ejaculate over and over again consistently.
Lack of knowledge and Learning about Female orgasms
One thing brought up in female sex studies is that women hardly ever receive any teaching, training, or instruction on how to climax and have an orgasm. There are 2 places young children learn things traditionally, either school or home and in neither cases are these places teaching women how to orgasm.
In sexual-education (Sex-Ed) classes during high-school they mainly cover the basics on the male and female reproductive systems, women go through menstruation, men ejaculate then a women gets pregnant and thats it. Oh yeah and by the way watch out for these sexually transmitted diseases you can get from sex so you all should really wear protection or just wait till your married now good luck.
How many women had their mom teach them how to masturbate, ejaculate and if so how did that topic and direction all come up? Most people can’t even get their parents to have a discussion about the birds and bees with them much less how to achieve the ever elusive female orgasm. Guys get a magazine or video and figure it out themselves pretty easily. So where do most people find out about sex and especially in the case of women? Well simply they learn from their friends, watching movies, or personal experimentation. Worse off many weren't as lucky to have grown up with Salt-n-pepa helping to get us to open up and 'Talk about sex' with their hit song.
In the study of women from both France and the US it was found that 16 - 21% of sexually active women have even ever experienced an orgasm at all. Its reported that only 18% of woman can have an orgasm from penis insertion into the vagina. The other 82% need clitoral stimulation. 18% is saying statistically only 1 in 5 women can have an orgasm from a penis penetrating them which is a high number and really sad.
Chart REF: https://www.netflix.com/title/80216752/ “EP 16. The Female Orgasm"
It's no wonder women begin having a fascination with Big Black studs who are extremely well endowed with male appendages and another study should be conducted to see how many women have orgasms from vaginal penetration with a BBC.
Hence that's what the poll here is attempting to accomplish with capturing some data although not conducted from a scientifically controlled study.
Good ol' sex expert Dr. Ruth said “…women must take responsibility for their own sexual satisfaction.” [1] Appears she is right since it appears men fail miserably at making sure a woman can be satisfied.
[1] REF: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...-us-with-her-sex-talk/?utm_term=.70484c2b23e0
I'll be completely forthcoming about my experience of losing my virginity in high-school and complete ignorance on female orgasms. My Girl-friend I was dating at the time was a hot slim puerto-rican who had originally dated one of the tall star basketball players at my school. After she broke up with the B-baller my best friend and stic-man at school had asked her out and struck out. Not so long after I saw her one day at lunch sitting at a table, I went in and made my move. Somehow she took to me and it was on. I spent a few weeks hanging out with her after school at her place in which her parents got home late often. Then one day we were making out furiously on the couch in her basement and I was able to get her pants off, I got mine off and I went for it humping like a dog in heat. Only problem was I thought I was fucking her until she raised up her hips maneuvering to get her hand down to grab my cock and actually insert it in her which I was embarrased to find out I was just fucking the ******* out of the couch cushions for a good two minutes or more. True fucking story.
I was young, completely dumb, full of cum, had all teenage sexual angst, blue balls, and just happy to get my nut off ejaculating all over on or in a woman as it was better than using my hand. Making sure my GF ejaculated or came be dammed - I had no care in that. But at least I learned from her how to properly insert my cock into the right hole lest I be embarrassed like that again as a complete ignoramus. I still feel lucky to this day she didn't just laugh her ass off in my face.
Fast forward to college and now I meet my college sweet-heart whom I had one of my longest relationships ever with on and off for over several years. She had told me that before she met me she had 5 BFs and none of them ever made her cum. I'll caveat here that she was a very sexy tall and petite Japanese girl who had actually did some modeling work on a commercial once. Up to the point before she met me she thought it was a myth that women could cum or that those women who did were extremely lucky. One of her prior boyfriends did happen to be a Black guy in the marines also. I got many wonderful stories about my adventures with this woman that are all worthy of being told such as the indecent proposal she got from some wealthy European tycoon on a mediterrean cruise we took but I'll have to save those for another day and time. Sticking to the main subject, one day my sexy college sweet-heart and I went to a hotel that she booked for a fun getaway. This hotel had some themed rooms as she did her homework and it was a perfect set-up. But what happened next was my enlightening eureka, red-pill in the matrix moment.
I was overcome with amore by the arrangement she made for us I guess you can say as I proceeded to lick, and suck, and kiss, and fuck, and lick and suck and kiss my GF over and over on her clit and inside her vagina until she had several extreme uncontrollable body shaking orgasms that seem to all happen on top of one another. This was all from experimentation and possibly mimicking some things I've seen from some porn videos. Even after I stopped touching her - her body continued to quiver and her legs were visibly shaking uncontrollably for several minutes. She looked like she was ******* and couldn't even get up off the bed when she tried as her legs where like jelly. I remember these words crystallized in my mind when she said "what did you do to me, I can't stop my body from shaking?" I stepped back smiling and pleased with myself to have brought my GF to this point of *******. But then I said to myself that's actually a really great question she asked me. What exactly did I do to get that physical reaction from her and how can I repeat that performance to get the same reaction from her every time?
Well things only got better with this GF. Our passion was so amazingly intense together that it came to the point one day we were both sitting up on her sofa at her apartment just making out fully clothed with me doing nothing but having my arms wrapped around her upper body and she fell back told me she was cumming. I leaned back looking at her like what - that's BS how is she coming and I didn't even put my finger or cock in her? She said yes I have some control over her body now that she doesn't even have control over it anymore when I touch and kiss her. I said B.S. and moved my hands down into her pants feeling between her legs which her pussy was extremely wet and dripping on my finger tips. She was adamant that she came only from the kissing and rubbing. This initiated the education of a young BigBlackBull and his deep studies into the female anatomy and making them experience sexual orgasmic pleasure time and time again.
I've since learned from countless hours of personal experience, discussions with many women, and books on sex that state a common prerequisite theme for women to experience an orgasm. A woman must first be mentally, and emotionally stimulated then receive physical stimulation for her to be ready to cum. For men, most often just some visual and physical stimulation is all that is necessary to make us cum and almost never any emotional stimulation is needed. Its just biological nature on how we are hard-wired through evolution for the purposes of fulfilling procreation and reproduction.
To the point of a woman being mentally and emotionally stimulated another complaint I hear a lot from women and especially married ones is that you can’t just start rubbing up on them Friday night and expect to fuck right then and there. No if you want to fuck Friday night especially if you’ve been in the dog house all that week you better start working on things that Tuesday, or Wednesday before in buttering her up there buster. That will get her mentally and emotionally in the right mood for sex.
And yes there are exceptions to this theme or rule. Now check this out, sometime long after I broke up with my college sweet-heart I began dating a sex-pot who was 25, blonde, had huge natural tits with a playboy playmate of the year body, who happen to be half-german half-puerto-rican. When I met her our sexual chemistry was way off the charts right from the beginning. I was still young and there wasn't much about Inter-racial stuff out that this site promulgates now but I soon found out that she was into Black men with BBC big time. To top it all off she was taking online college courses to be a sex psychologist. What was even more interesting about her was a statement she made to me saying she was "...broken and thinks like a man". I said what the hell are you talking about that "you think like a man?". She said she thinks about sex all the time like a man, and that she is broken like that, she thinks and wants it all the time. Go figure on all this and I lie to you not its all 100% true.
Now at the time I thought that was a good problem to have with her being broke 'thinking like a man but still acting like a woman' - right guys? No wrong! I woke up one night with what I thought was a nightmare of me being trapped and buried alive underground in a coffin as I couldn't lift my body up only to awake with the woman riding on top of me in my sleep. That could’ve been ******* but this was a playboy playmate blonde bombshell who loves sex with blackmen we are talking about here. Getting her to cum wasn’t a problem but giving me enough time to get my rest so I can stay hard to continue to make her cum was a whole other issue. Hence I can relate and totally understand how men who call in another guy (i.e. Stud, Stallion, Bull) to help out in satisfying these insatiable women they are either married to or dating sometimes out here. Overall, I grew even more confident with my experiments and the things I learned and was taught by experience with this blonde sexual bob-omb shell on female orgasms.
But to revisit the earlier point, how is it that people and women learn how to achieve a female orgasm? A comedian by the name of Remy Kashmire has made a podcast called "How cum?" which discusses with humor about her frustrations on why she couldn’t cum from sex, and why wasn’t there much discussion on the topic in general in society. She did a great podcast interview on the Manwhore podcast which you can check out here that starts @ time stamp: 26:12.
Another interesting topic to explore and discuss about is the issue of when men don’t cum why is that considered a sexual failure but when women don’t cum that's normal and possibly even her fault. Some men shrug it off and just say well hey ‘you better get yours before I get mine."
I personally don’t accept or subscribe to that belief or way of doing business with a woman sexually after my period of enlightenment. A woman should cum, first and often as many times as possible as you'll receive much more pleasure from being able to provide pleasure. You will also find out that the woman would also be much more reciprocal of that pleasure again making everything all the more intense and better. If I cum or don’t cum its not a big thing to me however we all do like to release and I often never have a problem doing so to where its ever a problem. However there was one time where I was with a woman and I made her cum a few times however I myself did not cum and she was upset with me for not cumming which boggled my mind. I was perplexed to see why she would be mad about me not cumming when I wasn’t mad about it but that's a whole other story.
A sex study on women in college with a steady partner such as a boyfriend, or husband are 6x more likely to orgasm than a casual hook-up with just a one-nighter. Men who have sexual intercourse for the 5th time with a long-term partner have a success rate of achieving an orgasm 84% of the time vs. 31% for a casual hook-up or sex on the 1st night/date.
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One of the greatest mysteries of all time for mankind would be what is the female orgasm and are all of them the same? Also is the 'G-Spot' a myth or a fact? I present this article for informational, educational, and conversational purposes among the community here.
Its easy for everyone to know and describe what a male orgasm is as we can see it when a man ejaculates, his body contracts till he is paralyzed, then he goes limp. But for women how does a women even know she is or can have an orgasm much less a man who can’t actually see it? Its commonly reported that more than 50% of women say they fake orgasms which men never even know that a woman is doing it. Men almost never fake an orgasm and if they did a woman would know anyway cause they wouldn’t see or feel the man actually ejaculate.
In addition, why is it that orgasms are that much more difficult for a straight woman who is in a relationship with a man than it is for a woman who is a lesbian? According to a study conducted by (s)experts of women in the US & France, 95% of men in heterosexual relationships whether from dating or in a marriage actually cum during intercourse compared to only 65% for heterosexual women which is terrible. WTF - fellas.
Chart REF: https://www.netflix.com/title/80216752/ “EP 16. The Female Orgasm"
However 86% of lesbian gay women report being able to cum during their sexual encounters in comparison with only 65% of the time with a man(see chart below). Clearly studies show that lesbian women are doing something right. Well why is that fellas?
Chart REF: https://www.netflix.com/title/80216752/ “EP 16. The Female Orgasm"
I’ve heard first hand from many women about this in that they brag how women eat pussy better than men. Well not to be out-done because I am an extremely competitive person as well as being a man and Bull of men I wasn’t going to stand for being outdone by a woman in pleasing a woman. This article will deep dive into my own lack of knowledge (ignorance), personal learning from great master teachers (all women), experimenting, and finally mastering the art of how to make a women orgasm and ejaculate over and over again consistently.
Lack of knowledge and Learning about Female orgasms
One thing brought up in female sex studies is that women hardly ever receive any teaching, training, or instruction on how to climax and have an orgasm. There are 2 places young children learn things traditionally, either school or home and in neither cases are these places teaching women how to orgasm.
In sexual-education (Sex-Ed) classes during high-school they mainly cover the basics on the male and female reproductive systems, women go through menstruation, men ejaculate then a women gets pregnant and thats it. Oh yeah and by the way watch out for these sexually transmitted diseases you can get from sex so you all should really wear protection or just wait till your married now good luck.
How many women had their mom teach them how to masturbate, ejaculate and if so how did that topic and direction all come up? Most people can’t even get their parents to have a discussion about the birds and bees with them much less how to achieve the ever elusive female orgasm. Guys get a magazine or video and figure it out themselves pretty easily. So where do most people find out about sex and especially in the case of women? Well simply they learn from their friends, watching movies, or personal experimentation. Worse off many weren't as lucky to have grown up with Salt-n-pepa helping to get us to open up and 'Talk about sex' with their hit song.
In the study of women from both France and the US it was found that 16 - 21% of sexually active women have even ever experienced an orgasm at all. Its reported that only 18% of woman can have an orgasm from penis insertion into the vagina. The other 82% need clitoral stimulation. 18% is saying statistically only 1 in 5 women can have an orgasm from a penis penetrating them which is a high number and really sad.
Chart REF: https://www.netflix.com/title/80216752/ “EP 16. The Female Orgasm"
It's no wonder women begin having a fascination with Big Black studs who are extremely well endowed with male appendages and another study should be conducted to see how many women have orgasms from vaginal penetration with a BBC.
Hence that's what the poll here is attempting to accomplish with capturing some data although not conducted from a scientifically controlled study.Good ol' sex expert Dr. Ruth said “…women must take responsibility for their own sexual satisfaction.” [1] Appears she is right since it appears men fail miserably at making sure a woman can be satisfied.
[1] REF: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...-us-with-her-sex-talk/?utm_term=.70484c2b23e0
I'll be completely forthcoming about my experience of losing my virginity in high-school and complete ignorance on female orgasms. My Girl-friend I was dating at the time was a hot slim puerto-rican who had originally dated one of the tall star basketball players at my school. After she broke up with the B-baller my best friend and stic-man at school had asked her out and struck out. Not so long after I saw her one day at lunch sitting at a table, I went in and made my move. Somehow she took to me and it was on. I spent a few weeks hanging out with her after school at her place in which her parents got home late often. Then one day we were making out furiously on the couch in her basement and I was able to get her pants off, I got mine off and I went for it humping like a dog in heat. Only problem was I thought I was fucking her until she raised up her hips maneuvering to get her hand down to grab my cock and actually insert it in her which I was embarrased to find out I was just fucking the ******* out of the couch cushions for a good two minutes or more. True fucking story.
I was young, completely dumb, full of cum, had all teenage sexual angst, blue balls, and just happy to get my nut off ejaculating all over on or in a woman as it was better than using my hand. Making sure my GF ejaculated or came be dammed - I had no care in that. But at least I learned from her how to properly insert my cock into the right hole lest I be embarrassed like that again as a complete ignoramus. I still feel lucky to this day she didn't just laugh her ass off in my face.
Fast forward to college and now I meet my college sweet-heart whom I had one of my longest relationships ever with on and off for over several years. She had told me that before she met me she had 5 BFs and none of them ever made her cum. I'll caveat here that she was a very sexy tall and petite Japanese girl who had actually did some modeling work on a commercial once. Up to the point before she met me she thought it was a myth that women could cum or that those women who did were extremely lucky. One of her prior boyfriends did happen to be a Black guy in the marines also. I got many wonderful stories about my adventures with this woman that are all worthy of being told such as the indecent proposal she got from some wealthy European tycoon on a mediterrean cruise we took but I'll have to save those for another day and time. Sticking to the main subject, one day my sexy college sweet-heart and I went to a hotel that she booked for a fun getaway. This hotel had some themed rooms as she did her homework and it was a perfect set-up. But what happened next was my enlightening eureka, red-pill in the matrix moment.
I was overcome with amore by the arrangement she made for us I guess you can say as I proceeded to lick, and suck, and kiss, and fuck, and lick and suck and kiss my GF over and over on her clit and inside her vagina until she had several extreme uncontrollable body shaking orgasms that seem to all happen on top of one another. This was all from experimentation and possibly mimicking some things I've seen from some porn videos. Even after I stopped touching her - her body continued to quiver and her legs were visibly shaking uncontrollably for several minutes. She looked like she was ******* and couldn't even get up off the bed when she tried as her legs where like jelly. I remember these words crystallized in my mind when she said "what did you do to me, I can't stop my body from shaking?" I stepped back smiling and pleased with myself to have brought my GF to this point of *******. But then I said to myself that's actually a really great question she asked me. What exactly did I do to get that physical reaction from her and how can I repeat that performance to get the same reaction from her every time?
Well things only got better with this GF. Our passion was so amazingly intense together that it came to the point one day we were both sitting up on her sofa at her apartment just making out fully clothed with me doing nothing but having my arms wrapped around her upper body and she fell back told me she was cumming. I leaned back looking at her like what - that's BS how is she coming and I didn't even put my finger or cock in her? She said yes I have some control over her body now that she doesn't even have control over it anymore when I touch and kiss her. I said B.S. and moved my hands down into her pants feeling between her legs which her pussy was extremely wet and dripping on my finger tips. She was adamant that she came only from the kissing and rubbing. This initiated the education of a young BigBlackBull and his deep studies into the female anatomy and making them experience sexual orgasmic pleasure time and time again.
I've since learned from countless hours of personal experience, discussions with many women, and books on sex that state a common prerequisite theme for women to experience an orgasm. A woman must first be mentally, and emotionally stimulated then receive physical stimulation for her to be ready to cum. For men, most often just some visual and physical stimulation is all that is necessary to make us cum and almost never any emotional stimulation is needed. Its just biological nature on how we are hard-wired through evolution for the purposes of fulfilling procreation and reproduction.
To the point of a woman being mentally and emotionally stimulated another complaint I hear a lot from women and especially married ones is that you can’t just start rubbing up on them Friday night and expect to fuck right then and there. No if you want to fuck Friday night especially if you’ve been in the dog house all that week you better start working on things that Tuesday, or Wednesday before in buttering her up there buster. That will get her mentally and emotionally in the right mood for sex.
And yes there are exceptions to this theme or rule. Now check this out, sometime long after I broke up with my college sweet-heart I began dating a sex-pot who was 25, blonde, had huge natural tits with a playboy playmate of the year body, who happen to be half-german half-puerto-rican. When I met her our sexual chemistry was way off the charts right from the beginning. I was still young and there wasn't much about Inter-racial stuff out that this site promulgates now but I soon found out that she was into Black men with BBC big time. To top it all off she was taking online college courses to be a sex psychologist. What was even more interesting about her was a statement she made to me saying she was "...broken and thinks like a man". I said what the hell are you talking about that "you think like a man?". She said she thinks about sex all the time like a man, and that she is broken like that, she thinks and wants it all the time. Go figure on all this and I lie to you not its all 100% true.
Now at the time I thought that was a good problem to have with her being broke 'thinking like a man but still acting like a woman' - right guys? No wrong! I woke up one night with what I thought was a nightmare of me being trapped and buried alive underground in a coffin as I couldn't lift my body up only to awake with the woman riding on top of me in my sleep. That could’ve been ******* but this was a playboy playmate blonde bombshell who loves sex with blackmen we are talking about here. Getting her to cum wasn’t a problem but giving me enough time to get my rest so I can stay hard to continue to make her cum was a whole other issue. Hence I can relate and totally understand how men who call in another guy (i.e. Stud, Stallion, Bull) to help out in satisfying these insatiable women they are either married to or dating sometimes out here. Overall, I grew even more confident with my experiments and the things I learned and was taught by experience with this blonde sexual bob-omb shell on female orgasms.
But to revisit the earlier point, how is it that people and women learn how to achieve a female orgasm? A comedian by the name of Remy Kashmire has made a podcast called "How cum?" which discusses with humor about her frustrations on why she couldn’t cum from sex, and why wasn’t there much discussion on the topic in general in society. She did a great podcast interview on the Manwhore podcast which you can check out here that starts @ time stamp: 26:12.
Another interesting topic to explore and discuss about is the issue of when men don’t cum why is that considered a sexual failure but when women don’t cum that's normal and possibly even her fault. Some men shrug it off and just say well hey ‘you better get yours before I get mine."
I personally don’t accept or subscribe to that belief or way of doing business with a woman sexually after my period of enlightenment. A woman should cum, first and often as many times as possible as you'll receive much more pleasure from being able to provide pleasure. You will also find out that the woman would also be much more reciprocal of that pleasure again making everything all the more intense and better. If I cum or don’t cum its not a big thing to me however we all do like to release and I often never have a problem doing so to where its ever a problem. However there was one time where I was with a woman and I made her cum a few times however I myself did not cum and she was upset with me for not cumming which boggled my mind. I was perplexed to see why she would be mad about me not cumming when I wasn’t mad about it but that's a whole other story.
A sex study on women in college with a steady partner such as a boyfriend, or husband are 6x more likely to orgasm than a casual hook-up with just a one-nighter. Men who have sexual intercourse for the 5th time with a long-term partner have a success rate of achieving an orgasm 84% of the time vs. 31% for a casual hook-up or sex on the 1st night/date.
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