Ok, so my wife said that she is thinking about coming on here herself real soon as she would like to talk to REAL white wives who decided to fulfill their husband's (and their own) fantasy of being with a black man. This is very exciting to me, but I am nervous as well. Not nervous at all that she is wanting to take this step, but concerned that the women she chats with will be on the extreme side of this lifestyle (black ownership, leaving their husbands, humiliation, etc.). I dont want her to get scared off. We have a FANTASTIC sex life and I completely satisfy her and our marriage is absolutely wonderful. This is just a huge fantasy that we have discussed for years and she has always said she wants it to happen when the time is right. Her idea of the right situation would literally be her and I out on a date night, meeting a nice black guy, chatting, drinking getting to know each other and having me there as part of the whole experience. I just hope when she gets on here soon that she has the right conversations with the right wives that help her with her concerns. I love her so much and would never pressure her to do anything that she doesnt want and I would NEVER want her to do something like this only because she knows I want her to. That would not be fun for me. We are a very responsible couple but we definitely have a wild side. I think she would have a great time and really enjoy it if she can get her concerns out of the way. Thanks for listening.