We watch ir porn , we love ir porn , only porn we watch, but wife says she dont want a bbc ..? Any help ....?
I say don't ******* it. Just let everything play out as she progresses her interest. If not, then let her be.We watch ir porn , we love ir porn , only porn we watch, but wife says she dont want a bbc ..? Any help ....?
I think you might need to explain more about why she says she doesnt want to do it. Like bbb76 says it takes some of us many years to do. I felt the whole thing was a bit embarrassing and seedy and was worried about hubbys true feelings and, to be honest, taking a large cock. So I said I wouldnt go with BBC to begin with and we compromised by us both joining a swingers club near where we live. Going there made the difference, socialising with 'normal' people who were going to rooms with other people made it acceptable. I went with a couple of older white guys which I didnt enjoy and, once I had done that, decided to move on to BBC.We watch ir porn , we love ir porn , only porn we watch, but wife says she dont want a bbc ..? Any help ....?
We watch ir porn , we love ir porn , only porn we watch, but wife says she dont want a bbc ..? Any help ....?
drop the subject and respect your wife's choice
I agree, I told hubby I didnt want to at the start but am so glad I eventually started. So far we have had lots of fun and only a couple of minor problems so am glad my hubby didnt drop the subject.That sounds like when a person comes up against an obstacle they should just give up and go away. That has never been my philosophy. I've always been tenacious. There is nothing wrong with him continuing to try and talking to his wife, unless it starts to create a problem between the two.
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That sounds like when a person comes up against an obstacle they should just give up and go away. That has never been my philosophy. I've always been tenacious. There is nothing wrong with him continuing to try and talking to his wife, unless it starts to create a problem between the two.
Keep reading the forum postings from other members who had similar troubles but their wives eventually came around to the decision on their own as to that was what they wanted and where doing it for themselves, not for someone else especially when it is being ****** on them. I saw one post where a guy says it finally happened after waiting 10years, but hooray. You have to Live and let live, just let it be.
Show her love, and your love of the Blackman's large appendage and after a while that small seed planted will begin to take root like the acorn of an oaktree and grow large and take over everything. Be like a gardner and keep watering her mind with kind encouraging words, and shining light on it with images of IR porn and it may happen. They say a flower blooms according to its own nature, and not before its time.
Otherwise, some seeds are swept up by the birds and eaten before they can take root, or others never have enough deep fertile soil to ferment in to begin with. It may never firmly take root and never happen and that happens in life and nature too is all I'm trying to say but keep trying to plant the idea. And like they say when an idea has reached its time, watch out. But she has to come to that determined idea to do it on her own.
Maybe your wife has room for only one lover in her life and thats you if she doesnt want black its ok my first wife wanted as many guys as she could get color didnt matter and it was not a fun time.We watch ir porn , we love ir porn , only porn we watch, but wife says she dont want a bbc ..? Any help ....?
I am no expert in this field but it sounds like everything this dude said is dead on. Keep having fun with it and either she will or will not come around. In some cases the actual event may not live up to the fantasy so just go with it. It doesn't mean you have to give up. Just have fun with it
Nothing like having a good opinion of one's self ... I like that ... "stud-muffin"!.... It took a while for me to come around to this new purpose in life, but after having my body and cock being objectified so much by woman I have been with in the past I have only recently just found it natural to accept the role of being a stud-muffin .....
This actually made me think of the idea of having to write a post from the Bull's perspective of coming into this lifestyle.