I found out my wife joined this site and met somebody here. I think she plans on leaving me. She thinks I should be ok with her having a lover and me not seeing anyone else. I love her and don't want to lose her and I think its wrong that all these girls just have to be with black guys. Now I'm just stuck because if she does leave me it will be humiliating to have to tell friends and family that. What am I supposed to do.