I grant you initially it was my idea. This has only really started becoming a 'thing' for us both for about two weeks. Over the past couple of days things have progressed to talking outside the bedroom with my wife asking the question "so would you be ok with me sleeping with another man"? Hence the reason I stated she is coming round to the idea. I would never push my wife into a position she would not want to be in, I love her far to much.