My first experience

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openmindedmom

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I am 36 year old, white mom in Missouri. I recently had my first experience with a black man (life changing!). My husband is aware and was the one who originally approached me about being with other men.

This happened a bit randomly and unexpectedly, in the sense that I didn’t expect it to come together as quickly as it did

My life and outlook on sex was completely and fundamentally changed as a result, in an amazing way. Not even sure words can put into perspective what it was like for me.

Anyway, I felt it would be nice to share that with others. I am open to discussing more if anyone is interested or has any questions

Happy Friday all!!
 
openmindedmom said:
I am 36 year old, white mom in Missouri. I recently had my first experience with a black man (life changing!). My husband is aware and was the one who originally approached me about being with other men.

This happened a bit randomly and unexpectedly, in the sense that I didn’t expect it to come together as quickly as it did

My life and outlook on sex was completely and fundamentally changed as a result, in an amazing way. Not even sure words can put into perspective what it was like for me.

Anyway, I felt it would be nice to share that with others. I am open to discussing more if anyone is interested or has any questions

Happy Friday all!!
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So glad it went well for you
You only saw him once?
 
openmindedmom said:
We both decided before doing anything like this that, at least for the first few times, it would be best if he wasn’t there. We both were worried I’d be more focused on my husband than I would be on simply being in the moment and being my full self
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Got it

If bull is good your only focus on hubby will be to let him know with your eyes that you're getting the fuck of your life

Good luck
 
Congratulations!!! I wish my wife would have tried it much younger. How is your husband reacting? I will say, just make sure your communicating a lot, at least at first, make sure he feels apart of it all.

Give us some details, did you know him prior, where did it happen, what did your husband say after?
 
gr8hubby said:
Congratulations!!! I wish my wife would have tried it much younger. How is your husband reacting? I will say, just make sure your communicating a lot, at least at first, make sure he feels apart of it all.

Give us some details, did you know him prior, where did it happen, what did your husband say after?
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My husband has been amazing in his reaction. So sweet, kind and even shared how proud he was of me for taking the leap so to speak

As to your questions: I did know him prior yes. It happened in a hotel. And when I got home my husband hugged me, let me decompress a little and then we talked about it, with him asking questions and me sharing everything he asked for. He was very excited, turned on, proud and happy for me. It ensured me that all of him wanting me to do this was coming from a genuine place of love
 
openmindedmom said:
My husband has been amazing in his reaction. So sweet, kind and even shared how proud he was of me for taking the leap so to speak

As to your questions: I did know him prior yes. It happened in a hotel. And when I got home my husband hugged me, let me decompress a little and then we talked about it, with him asking questions and me sharing everything he asked for. He was very excited, turned on, proud and happy for me. It ensured me that all of him wanting me to do this was coming from a genuine place of love
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Nice, that is all you could have hoped for. Hope you keep enjoying and sharing…..
 
There was so much that was new in this experience - positions, the communication during, the sheer masculinity of him, the stretching and intense feeling of fullness, to name a few

I admit, prior to this I was that girl that would always say it doesn’t matter but my mind was 100% changed as a result of this experience. It matters and makes a difference
 
openmindedmom said:
There was so much that was new in this experience - positions, the communication during, the sheer masculinity of him, the stretching and intense feeling of fullness, to name a few

I admit, prior to this I was that girl that would always say it doesn’t matter but my mind was 100% changed as a result of this experience. It matters and makes a difference
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Did he cream pie you? If so how was it?
 
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