I know that many of you are not surprized by that, as far as I can understand. However, when I saw her with her bf, I was so surprized and mad that I chastised her, reprimanded her and even hit her a little and threw her out of my house. But let's take everything in order. I am Greek. I am a married 48 year old man with my 40 year old wife. We have together 3 children. One son (21) and 2 daughters (20 and 17). I work at a power station. All of my children study. Generally, I was a very good father of them. I loved them, helped for their homework sacrificing much of my free time, never specified limits of time to get home early, never chastised my daughters about their past bfs, still paying for their studies etc. Even my wife does not have any complaints of me. Also my older daughter used to bring her bfs in our house to introduce them to me. I never told her anything bad about it. Also one of her bfs was an Albanian. I had no problem with that. My life was like that a few months ago, when I noticed that Helen (my 21 year old daughter) found a new bf but she didn’t bring him home to introduce him to us. I don’t know how to explain, she kept him in secret. Even she knew that I never had any problem with her bfs. To be honest at first I thought that she had an old bf, maybe a friend of mine, that’s why she didn’t want me to meet him. So I tracked her and saw her with her new black bf. You can’t believe how I felt. I was about to suffer a heart attack. I hated her from that time. She didn’t see me that time I hided me self very good. I waited her to my home. When she got home, we started to fight, I slapped her and threw her out of my house. Even my wife and my son agreed to how I reacted. Most of you will consider me as a racist. Maybe you are right. BUT you may consider that Greece is a country without blacks especially in small towns or cities. The only blacks that are here are some African women who work as whores or strippers, and some male blacks who come here for part time manual jobs and a few soccer or basketball players but only at big cities. What I mean is that we are not “used to blacks”. We are not like US or France or UK or generally such countries which are full of black people. For example I have never met any black with a white. There are almost no blacks here. Hope I made it clear what I mean. This black guy (28 years old) is Greek in a way. His grandfather during the civil war immigrated to Africa (I think in Botswana) got married there, made 2 sons and I don’t know how many grandsons and granddaughters. One of his grandsons (my daughter’s bf) immigrated at his 18 years old to Greece, studied here and now works here and plays soccer at a small team. He is totally black, not even looks like a mixed raced. When Helen left my house, she went to live with him. She tried to find a work but she couldn’t. You know about economic crisis in Greece. When her bf realized that Helen couldn’t find a job, so he should totally take care of her expenses, he broke up with her and left her alone. I should mention here that universities here are totally free of charges. Then she returned to us, regretful crying begging us to forgive her. So we did and we tried to comfort her. Even passed about 3 months without him, even she found another bf she couldn’t get over him. I couldn’t find any reason for that but I was patient. We were like that until one day she disappeared. All of us tried to call her but she did not respond. Even to her bf. She disappeared for 2 days. I called all hospitals but nothing. I was about to go to the police when she called us and told us that she is with this black guy again. He called her wanted to join again and Helen without second thought, as she claims, she forgave him and now they are together again. I don’t know but I didn’t chastise her again. I forgave her and still love her. However, I know that if I stop giving pocket money to Helen, this guy will leave her again and make my daughter again frustrated. Now tell me who is bad? Me or him? Sorry for my long thread. Sorry for my bad English as well but English is not my first language. And I don’t consider right to show here a pic of her.