Much needed Public Service Announcement to everyone on BtoW

I liked your message BBB. I'm just a husband on here looking for clues to help get my wife interested in this lifestyle. Does that make me the fake people talk about? I've never represented myself as anything else, so I don't think so. Hopefully I can learn enough to get her involved someday. Interested in meeting a nice looking 50 year old lady sometime?
I especially like the AFC reference, I read that book years ago. Helped me out a lot.
 
falcondfw69 said:
Any guy that gets to win your heart (or other parts. lol) Is truly a lucky guy. You will find the appropriate person for you.
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Is this a reply to my note? If so, Thanks for the compliment. I've got my lucky guy. I'm a lucky lady to have him. And I've met some wonderful people in the lifestyle. General swinging and bbc lovers. Most of the men I have met are true gentlemen. The others? Hopefully they'll come to their senses.
 
sweetginny said:
Is this a reply to my note? If so, Thanks for the compliment. I've got my lucky guy. I'm a lucky lady to have him. And I've met some wonderful people in the lifestyle. General swinging and bbc lovers. Most of the men I have met are true gentlemen. The others? Hopefully they'll come to their senses.
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Yeah me U sexy sweetginny, U are such a wonderful loving Person and a QoS muuuaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh
 
Cruiser11004 said:
I liked your message BBB. I'm just a husband on here looking for clues to help get my wife interested in this lifestyle. Does that make me the fake people talk about? I've never represented myself as anything else, so I don't think so. Hopefully I can learn enough to get her involved someday. Interested in meeting a nice looking 50 year old lady sometime?
I especially like the AFC reference, I read that book years ago. Helped me out a lot.
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@Cruiser11004 - many thanks for your compliments and have you taken a look at the other post I compiled titled
"The Complete Idiot and Dummies Guide on Interracial Cuckolding (aka how to train a hotwife to love BBC and cuckold a hubby)"
ref: http://www.blacktowhite.net/communi...otwife-to-love-bbc-and-cuckold-a-hubby.40507/

I created that guide for guys especially like you and it has contributions from the collective wisdom of many people and couples on this site as well.
~BBB76
 
sweetginny said:
You would think that a lot of what was said in this thread would be obvious, but it isn't always so. I can understand the "pants around the knees" and untied shoelace crowd for thinking rude and crude is cool. But they aren't really represented here. By the time a man hits 30 he should know how to act. But, just today a 30 year old introduced himself with "I want you to be my cum slut" and "love to make a white bitch my slave... Fuck her in front of hubby". Too bad. I could have been interested if he showed some maturity and used the manners his parents (hopefully) taught him.
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Lol. You should have said "Do you want just this white bitch or will any white bitch do?". lol.
 
Well said BigBlackBull76!! It is nice to hear someone say all those things. Intelligence is a virtue no matter what color you are. We have had pretty good luck on here as most of the guys we have met in the short time we have been on this site have been very respectful and courtious. Except one which i chalk up to a bad apple in every bunch. In fact I have been the rude one not getting back to all the guys as we have been overwhelmed with responses. Bigblackbull..... look at our post under couples looking and PM me if you might be interested.
 
We are new to this site but want to say how much we appreciate your message. Our early experiences in this BBC lifestyle were a little rocky, to say the least. We discussed what we wanted to get out of it and the lack of respect and crudeness from a few almost ended it before it really started. Then we me a black male in Dallas that was real and understood, he absolutely turned it around for her. To this day we are very good friends, see his grandchild and spend quality nights with him and or some of his group. We enjoy the fantasy side of the site as well as the words from the real people, a mix that makes it fun.
 
Ladies and gentleman an i get a standing ovation for this man. I mysrlf on occasion have complained about fakes and such on here, you can read my history, but i have given up on that. True i have yet to meet somebody on this site but i have had success on other sites so am not too stressed about it. Funny enough the last part of the OP's PSA is something i thought of a while back when i was on this site and just thinking in general that we gotta be more than this. @bigblackbull76 i have a feeling that if i knew you real life brotha you would be one of the realest, chillest people to hang with.
 
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@wahoosurfer, @LeeandJen, @Tony_H52, and my brother @sexxy360, I appreciate all the positive feedback. Let me know when you guys come through NY, or DC area. We can meet-up for some drinks at a happy hour "where troubles pop like bubbles in a Champagne glass, dreams and reality are one in the same,... so let's toast it up" to the good champagne life. :blackgreedy:

Cheers
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Ahh...it is to dream...lol...but the knob heads will do what they do. They blew right over this post and paid it no attention. I DO understand the compulsion to want to set things straight, but dicksmacks are dicksmacks.
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wahoosurfer said:
Hey BigBlackBull76, If we come through that area and we meet up, there better be more than just drinks! I couldnt stand next to you knowing you have a cock like that and not have any!!
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@wahoosurfer - I ain't mad at that. Our meet would be an enjoyable festive affair on both sides then. :blackgreedy::sex:
Twobecomesthree said:
Ahh...it is to dream...lol...but the knob heads will do what they do. They blew right over this post and paid it no attention. I DO understand the compulsion to want to set things straight, but dicksmacks are dicksmacks.
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@Twobecomesthree - nothing ventured, nothing gained my dear. My message was a deliverance on behalf of the countless people I've talked to on here and some words of wisdom to try and wise the dumb.

It was said that when Jesus from the Bible began teaching people including his disciples they had alot of trouble understanding him and the messages he was conveying. So he began teaching using parables and one of the first of those was the parable of the seed sower in which he taught that the seeds were the words he spoke.

He said that some will get it as the words will sink into their minds, take root and cause change as many already have that you can see from all of the positive responses on here. Then for others the words delivered as seeds of change will just bounce off their hard stubborn-heads and unfortunately they will remain 'dicksmacks'.

But also as the bible says in Ezekiel 3:18 "When I say to a wicked person, 'You will surely die,' and you do not warn them or speak out to dissuade them from their evil ways in order to save their life, that wicked person will die for their sin, and I will hold you accountable for their *******."

I don't mean to get preachy as I'm not a religious person but I don't have anything personally against religion either and I know how words can be wielded as a Sword or a Shield hence I use certain passages to deliver the message home when needed. In the end your right that some dicksmacks will continue to be dicksmacks but hopefully my message may have reached some of them to wisen up, use their brains and change as well.

~BBB76
 
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bigblackbull76 said:
@Cruiser11004 - many thanks for your compliments and have you taken a look at the other post I compiled titled
"The Complete Idiot and Dummies Guide on Interracial Cuckolding (aka how to train a hotwife to love BBC and cuckold a hubby)"
ref: http://www.blacktowhite.net/communi...otwife-to-love-bbc-and-cuckold-a-hubby.40507/

I created that guide for guys especially like you and it has contributions from the collective wisdom of many people and couples on this site as well.
~BBB76
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I spent quite a bit of time going over this post and all the linked posts and videos, very nice work. I'm not really sure that I want to get into the whole Dom/sub side of things, and I definitely don't want to abstain from sex myself. I'm just looking for a way to get her to open up and have some good experiences that will enhance her sex life. I would love to have her experience a large BBC (yours is magnificent by the way) and tell me about it, or better yet see it happen. Some of the info will help me, I will keep trying. Any more hints are always welcome.
 
bigblackbull76 said:
Im about to give you the truth, the whole, pure, undiluted nothing but the truth but many of you can't handle the truth.

You can either love me or Hate me after this post (and please save all your hate-mail cause I got enough to read as it is) but this needed to be said.

This is going to also serve as sort of a Public Service Announcement (PSA). So everyone should grab a pad and pen, sit-up straight, but relax and take notes for 'here is wisdom, he that hath understanding’ (to quote the Book of Revelations from the Bible).

First off speaking from my own personal experiences and to provide a level of credibility, I’ve now met and played with over several couples from this site alone three of them I’ve met twice, one called me back the very next day to play again which we did and I’ve met one woman who has become my secret-lover that I see weekly from off here whom I’m going to come back to discussing at the end of this post. I even had 3 couples (2 from here, and 1 not from here) contacted me on the same-day about meeting which I had to do a coin-flip between the three to choose which one to meet.

I’ve talked to almost several other women and couples where situations occurred that prevented us from meeting. Sometimes it was on my-side, sometimes theirs but I never complained nor have they and I still correspond with a few of them not on this site but by personal email and phone even many months after the failed meeting attempts.

I was near @MyLoveyLaurita ’s location some many months ago and we tried to meet but the timing didn’t work out and we still communicate to this day via my gmail account. I didn’t get pissed at them and understood their situation at the time. Same with @Bamagirl, and @TIH whom I appreciated them being patient with what would seem like me flaking out on them and I haven’t seen them complain.

There was only ONE lady on here (who is part of a couple somewhere on the east coast & I won’t out her so don’t ask me about them) that I really put a significant effort in to pursue after we chatted a few times on here, then ironically and funny enough I saw her profile on xhamster, chatted with her hubby more on there than I ever chatted with his wife, and both he and I are confused on what the hell is going on in her head and why we couldn’t make the final arrangement to meet. And it was her I chatted with as she verified on here as a ‘Real Person’ with real face pics on here and hamster both and there were some things as a woman she was taking care of so it wasn’t the hubby or guy faking. Still I didn't complain, thats just how life is and I moved on.

So first off an Announcement for Everyone on this site:

People need to relax with all the complaining about fakes, people fantasizing, not wanting to meet, etc. This is a free website set-up for people to socialize online for FREE. This is not a paid-membership site where anyone paid money to join for the purpose of meeting other people. Therefore because anyone is free to join the site with no requirements you have no way of weeding out the fake and flakes up-front before they get an account. People who join a site where they have to pay using real money wouldn’t be wasting their ‘real’ money to fool around faking and flaking on a website if the purpose of it was to meet. There could be some sadistic rich folk out there who do that, but the average person wouldn’t.

So end all of the complaining on here about people not meeting, who’s real, or who’s not. If you want to meet someone REAL goto a paid site as the odds are much higher that the other members on that site would be real, have more real-pics available, and will REALLY meet.

Second an Announcement for all the Men (mostly my brothers) on this site:

I observe too many men on here who go O.D. (overdose) with sexual perversions (I know its a sex-site but DAM), who seem socially awkward, and AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps). To see a perfect example of an AFC just watch the comedy show one-time called “The Last Man on Earth” that comes on FOX and how this guy who even being the last man on Earth with 2 women still couldn’t get laid because he is an idiot and doesn’t know how to be genuine or care enough to get a woman to like him. Whats also sad and ironic is that even after both women admitted they are horny, need a man, and that they should repopulate the planet he still sabotages himself from getting laid. I think the show will go and on with him never getting laid, he is just the typical average clueless guy or AFC and I know a lot of women understand what I’m talking about on this cause I recognize it and laugh now too.

In real life you are not going to just walk up to a woman, show her a pic of your cock, and ask her do you want to fuck, or do you like me and want be my girlfriend? Your chances are slim to none on that happening and its no different on here albeit your odds are slightly higher it might work if your cock pics are just that amazing and the chic is that much of a slut but I digress. :blackgrimace: Many guys are just hoping that it is easier on here were they don’t have to go through the anxiety of approaching a woman in real-life since they are already frustrated in the real-world on meeting women to have sex with. I have heard alot of complaints from couples and women that a lot of guys are way too rude, non-respectful, and egomaniacs. I can’t really help you guys on the manners part as that is something your parents should have taught you and if you don’t have it now you probably never will get it either. On the Ego part I’m guilty of it too, yeah I got a big cock, I get told all the time I got a big-one and the thing is like a hot-commodity. Women/couples are demanding it from me and it makes my head-big but to err is human and we all have ego’s and IDs we have to confront and handle but I won’t go all 'Sigmund Freud' on you at this moment (I'll save that for another post another time).

To help you fellas out, stop interfacing just through the silicon computer chips, and copper wires of the internet and learn how to interact socially with a real woman in the flesh and *******. Yes learn dammit. It can be done and it is also done partly through trial and error and not being afraid to make mistakes as you learn from all those mistakes. Learn the successes and mistakes of other men too. Develop a sense of humor, read some Cosmo, and other chic magazines (at your local grocery store as I never buy the rubbish) and find out what women like, what they want from men, relationships, and what they think about. You can use the material for conversation starters and to build rapport with women.

Then search your local papers & websites for announcements on events where single women will congregate, get yourselves cleaned up and groomed, couldn’t hurt to stop drinking sodas do exercise to drop some extra-weight, and ask another woman about your dress and hair style. Then go out and approach and interact using some of that ******* from Cosmo/chic mags and everywhere else. Then use all of what you learned on what to do and not to do going forward. Learn how to engage women and hold a conversation.

This ******* will take you a long way, and you may not even need to come back on here. I have applied all of those recommendations and it has made me successful to where when I do meet a woman/couple face to face I am able to consummate the deal. If you can socially interact better on an internet website in a non-perverted and not as socially awkward manner, your chances will go up dramatically. And provide some additional pictures of yourselves like better body-shots or of furry-animals besides just close-ups of your dicks would help too.

Third, last but certainly not least an Announcement to all of the women (all women except Black cause this would not apply to them), white men, and couples on this site:

I have seen a few posts before from people on this site discussing about this topic but it didn’t really hit home with me until I read something by my brother @Splitter posted on here a few days ago[1] and then my secret-lover who’ve I met via this site here made a statement about this to me just the other night. My secret-lover who is a married white woman said she left this site (account no longer exists) because it disgusted her. One thing she said to me was that she understood who I said I was, what I was going to do, and what I thought I had to do because I think I am the BigBlackBull. She has repeatedly expressed that she has issues with it but so long as I am good and respectful to her she did not care about the other aspects of what I may do. But she has also expressed and emphasized to me on more than one occasion that I am MUCH more than just the BigBlackBull or a BBC. She said she has never-ever met anyone Black or white like me (and not talking about just in the bed or my physical anatomy), and that I could easily be remembered as some significant figure immortalized in world history for who I am and the impact I have as a person in the real-world. She said I should not be objectified or just looked at as a sexual object and that was one out of many things that she does not like nor understood why I put up with it as well. With her words and what I have read a few other brothers write and express they hit me like a one-two punch from Pacquiao or Mayweather.

They were, and are all right. Instead of the 1-2 combo putting my lights out and having my bell rung it actually opened my eyes to see the light instead. Blackmen with their amazing BBC (BigBlackCocks) are much much more than just a BBC or something to be just objectified. Remember that they (Black Men), we, ‘I’ are much more than a sexual toy to play with on occasions and then put away like your vibrator in the drawer or your car in the garage. First see and refer to them as Beautiful Black Men (BBM), Black Male Studs (BMS) or whatever else you want to come up with and second that they have a BBC that you enjoy experiencing. But remember not to objectify them (or me).

And as Bob Marley, and Michael Jackson two BBMs (before one decided to go white) sung the beautiful lyrics “…this is my message to you."

My PSA/diatribe/Gettysburg Address/last 'Will and Testament' I leave with you on this topic since I put it all out there. In the end everyone wants the same 3 Pieces/Peaces in life to be happy; a Peace of mind, a piece of food for their stomachs, and a piece of ass but having 2 out of 3 is not bad either so I'll take the Peace of mind, and piece of food to sustain my life with. The last piece is not as significant to be happy or sustains one life.

Peace be unto you all.

~BBB76

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I'm new to the site so I wasn't sure if the thirst was just how the users operate. ******* I have maybe 24 hrs on this site and I'm close to setting something up. In my everyday life I do pretty good w/ women so this site is just icing on the cake. I gotta say as a new user just from what I see everything you said is FACTS!
 
BBB I read all your stuff and you know me, Ima go ahead an play Devil's advocate :devil:.
The Truth goes both ways. Rules, guidelines, how-to's, sure... that may guarantee success more likely than not, but sometimes some couples don't want all the 'wine and dine' - some couples just want/need a guy to come through, 'drop trou'(sers) and perform on demand. Everyone ain't looking for that perfect situation. They just need BBC on Demand.
That being said, A Bull can get spoiled from abundance :blackgreedy:. Chatting is cool, but some of us got ******* to do lol. Too much life to live and plenty of opportunities. So it ain't always 'Frustrated Chump Sydrome' - Farrrrrr from that.

Sometimes it's more like, enough talk - "are we hanging, or are we banging?".
 
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