Much needed Public Service Announcement to everyone on BtoW

BigBlackBull, I recognized early on, your intelligence and literate skillset as you communicated on BtW. But today, this was one of the most well written post ever presented. All your reflections were accurate on target. Yes we do need more mature brothers participating in the IR process, and not just viewing the women as bitches and ho's (regardless of what the women are saying). The women here who are sharing their bodies (willingly), need to be respected, and not denigrated or objectified as sluts. Yes it's a term used privately among couples having adult fun, but publicly we should always communicate in respectful ways to the ladies here. Not all are mature MILFs, some are young and experimenting with IR and some are Milfs curious and desiring an IR encounter. We need to respect them all.

Your writing also points out in a subtle way that in some ways, some folks (black and white) are allowing to the IR process to denigrate into a racist Mandingo type ******* for the amusement of others.

So along with Torpedo, and Falcon and others who try to maintain some adult (grown-up) maturity to the site, please continue writing and making BtW better.
OSP

Perhaps you should re-read his post about ALL the females on here being fake. And only HE has met the real one...Plus for my part. His making his posts all about himself and his how good he is how everyone loves him is over posturing at least, bragging at best. Not something I would ever find attractive in a guy. But as I said at the time. Self praise is no advertisement.
 
Perhaps you should re-read his post about ALL the females on here being fake. And only HE has met the real one...Plus for my part. His making his posts all about himself and his how good he is how everyone loves him is over posturing at least, bragging at best. Not something I would ever find attractive in a guy. But as I said at the time. Self praise is no advertisement.
You're talking about @Torpedo, right? When they get old, that's all they can do is polish their own brass. gif_Yellowball-laughing7.gif
 
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Very well written, but I have come to expect no less. :)

I (we) have been on numerous sites. We are here because Asmodeaus80 loves IR porn, and I am his favorite porn star. For my part, I love confident, intelligent, witty men... Of all races. I am not looking exclusively for BBC. In fact, I loathe dick pics as a conversation opener (just got one today). My experience with what you describe is why we have developed our own vetting process. If a man does not have the respect and patience for us to come to trust him, he does not get invited in.

This is a fantasy world, yes. But we also look for the real people behind the personas, and have made some great friends... From here and other sites.

No one wants to truly be objectified, not if they have real self-worth. Take the time to be respectful of each other, treat each other with decency, and you might find the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
You know, it is really nice to meet real people. Those who may be shy or hiding due to ******* or career or whatever. I think the lifestyle is so incredibly hot. I am engaged, but she does not like black guys (it is the culture she is from). Real people mean so much to me. I have been around here since dirt. And I know people question my reality, because of not getting verified after so long. But there are certain people who you just have no doubt about. People who put themselves out there and are honest and true. I hope and pray some can say the same about me. And I hope and pray that one day, my fantasies will come true.
 
BigBlackBull, I recognized early on, your intelligence and literate skillset as you communicated on BtW. But today, this was one of the most well written post ever presented. All your reflections were accurate on target. Yes we do need more mature brothers participating in the IR process, and not just viewing the women as bitches and ho's (regardless of what the women are saying). The women here who are sharing their bodies (willingly), need to be respected, and not denigrated or objectified as sluts. Yes it's a term used privately among couples having adult fun, but publicly we should always communicate in respectful ways to the ladies here. Not all are mature MILFs, some are young and experimenting with IR and some are Milfs curious and desiring an IR encounter. We need to respect them all.

Your writing also points out in a subtle way that in some ways, some folks (black and white) are allowing to the IR process to denigrate into a racist Mandingo type ******* for the amusement of others.

So along with Torpedo, and Falcon and others who try to maintain some adult (grown-up) maturity to the site, please continue writing and making BtW better.
OSP
OSP, maybe I am late to recognize, but did you really say that including me? That is a tremendous honor and it makes my heart melt. Thank you. Thank you for recognizing I try to be honest and true to who I am.
 
Im about to give you the truth, the whole, pure, undiluted nothing but the truth but many of you can't handle the truth.

You can either love me or Hate me after this post (and please save all your hate-mail cause I got enough to read as it is) but this needed to be said.

This is going to also serve as sort of a Public Service Announcement (PSA). So everyone should grab a pad and pen, sit-up straight, but relax and take notes for 'here is wisdom, he that hath understanding’ (to quote the Book of Revelations from the Bible).

First off speaking from my own personal experiences and to provide a level of credibility, I’ve now met and played with over several couples from this site alone three of them I’ve met twice, one called me back the very next day to play again which we did and I’ve met one woman who has become my secret-lover that I see weekly from off here whom I’m going to come back to discussing at the end of this post. I even had 3 couples (2 from here, and 1 not from here) contacted me on the same-day about meeting which I had to do a coin-flip between the three to choose which one to meet.

I’ve talked to almost several other women and couples where situations occurred that prevented us from meeting. Sometimes it was on my-side, sometimes theirs but I never complained nor have they and I still correspond with a few of them not on this site but by personal email and phone even many months after the failed meeting attempts.

I was near @MyLoveyLaurita ’s location some many months ago and we tried to meet but the timing didn’t work out and we still communicate to this day via my gmail account. I didn’t get pissed at them and understood their situation at the time. Same with @Bamagirl, and @TIH whom I appreciated them being patient with what would seem like me flaking out on them and I haven’t seen them complain.

There was only ONE lady on here (who is part of a couple somewhere on the east coast & I won’t out her so don’t ask me about them) that I really put a significant effort in to pursue after we chatted a few times on here, then ironically and funny enough I saw her profile on xhamster, chatted with her hubby more on there than I ever chatted with his wife, and both he and I are confused on what the hell is going on in her head and why we couldn’t make the final arrangement to meet. And it was her I chatted with as she verified on here as a ‘Real Person’ with real face pics on here and hamster both and there were some things as a woman she was taking care of so it wasn’t the hubby or guy faking. Still I didn't complain, thats just how life is and I moved on.

So first off an Announcement for Everyone on this site:

People need to relax with all the complaining about fakes, people fantasizing, not wanting to meet, etc. This is a free website set-up for people to socialize online for FREE. This is not a paid-membership site where anyone paid money to join for the purpose of meeting other people. Therefore because anyone is free to join the site with no requirements you have no way of weeding out the fake and flakes up-front before they get an account. People who join a site where they have to pay using real money wouldn’t be wasting their ‘real’ money to fool around faking and flaking on a website if the purpose of it was to meet. There could be some sadistic rich folk out there who do that, but the average person wouldn’t.

So end all of the complaining on here about people not meeting, who’s real, or who’s not. If you want to meet someone REAL goto a paid site as the odds are much higher that the other members on that site would be real, have more real-pics available, and will REALLY meet.

Second an Announcement for all the Men (mostly my brothers) on this site:

I observe too many men on here who go O.D. (overdose) with sexual perversions (I know its a sex-site but DAM), who seem socially awkward, and AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps). To see a perfect example of an AFC just watch the comedy show one-time called “The Last Man on Earth” that comes on FOX and how this guy who even being the last man on Earth with 2 women still couldn’t get laid because he is an idiot and doesn’t know how to be genuine or care enough to get a woman to like him. Whats also sad and ironic is that even after both women admitted they are horny, need a man, and that they should repopulate the planet he still sabotages himself from getting laid. I think the show will go and on with him never getting laid, he is just the typical average clueless guy or AFC and I know a lot of women understand what I’m talking about on this cause I recognize it and laugh now too.

In real life you are not going to just walk up to a woman, show her a pic of your cock, and ask her do you want to fuck, or do you like me and want be my girlfriend? Your chances are slim to none on that happening and its no different on here albeit your odds are slightly higher it might work if your cock pics are just that amazing and the chic is that much of a slut but I digress. :blackgrimace: Many guys are just hoping that it is easier on here were they don’t have to go through the anxiety of approaching a woman in real-life since they are already frustrated in the real-world on meeting women to have sex with. I have heard alot of complaints from couples and women that a lot of guys are way too rude, non-respectful, and egomaniacs. I can’t really help you guys on the manners part as that is something your parents should have taught you and if you don’t have it now you probably never will get it either. On the Ego part I’m guilty of it too, yeah I got a big cock, I get told all the time I got a big-one, the thing is like a hot-commodity women/couples are demanding and it makes my head-big but to err is human and we all have ego’s and IDs we have to confront and handle but I won’t go all 'Sigmund Freud' on you at this moment (I'll save that for another post another time).

To help you fellas out, stop interfacing just through the silicon computer chips, and copper wires of the internet and learn how to interact socially with a real woman in the flesh and *******. Yes learn dammit. It can be done and it is also done partly through trial and error and not being afraid to make mistakes as you learn from all those mistakes. Learn the successes and mistakes of other men too. Develop a sense of humor, read some Cosmo, and other chic magazines (at your local grocery store as I never buy the rubbish) and find out what women like, what they want from men, relationships, and what they think about. Then search your local papers & websites for announcements on events where single women will congregate, get yourselves cleaned up and groomed, couldn’t hurt to stop drinking soda to drop some extra-weight, and ask another woman about your dress and hair style. Then go out and approach and interact using some of that ******* from Cosmo/chic mags and everywhere else. Then use all of what you learned on what to do and not to do going forward. Learn how to engage women and hold a conversation.

This ******* will take you a long way, and you may not even need to come back on here. I have applied all of those recommendations and it has made me successful to where when I do meet a woman/couple face to face I am able to consummate the deal. If you can socially interact better on an internet website in a non-perverted and not as socially awkward manner, your chances will go up dramatically. And provide some additional pictures of yourselves like better body-shots or of furry-animals besides just close-ups of your dicks would help too.

Third, last but certainly not least an Announcement to all of the women (all races except Black cause this would not apply to them), white men, and couples on this site:

I have seen a few posts before from people on this site discussing about this topic but it didn’t really hit home with me until I read something by my brother @Splitter posted on here a few days ago[1] and then my secret-lover who’ve I met via this site here made a statement about this to me just the other night. My secret-lover who is a married white woman said she left this site (account no longer exists) because it disgusted her. One thing she said to me was that she understood who I said I was, what I was going to do, and what I thought I had to do because I think I am the BigBlackBull. She has repeatedly expressed that she has issues with it but so long as I am good and respectful to her she did not care about the other aspects of what I may do. But she has also expressed and emphasized to me on more than one occasion that I am MUCH more than just the BigBlackBull or a BBC. She said she has never-ever met anyone Black or white like me (and not talking about just in the bed or my physical anatomy), and that I could easily be remembered as some significant figure immortalized in world history for who I am and the impact I have as a person in the real-world. She said I should not be objectified or just looked at as a sexual object and that was one out of many things that she does not like nor understood why I put up with it as well. With her words and what I have read a few other brothers write and express they hit me like a one-two punch from Pacquiao or Mayweather.

They were, and are all right. Instead of the 1-2 combo putting my lights out and having my bell rung it actually opened my eyes to see the light instead. Blackmen with their amazing BBC (BigBlackCocks) are much much more than just a BBC or something to be just objectified. Remember that they (Black Men), we, ‘I’ are much more than a sexual toy to play with on occasions and then put away like your vibrator in the drawer or your car in the garage. First see and refer to them as Beautiful Black Men (BBM), Black Male Studs (BMS) or whatever else you want to come up with and second that they have a BBC that you enjoy experiencing. But remember not to objectify them (or me).

And as Bob Marley, and Michael Jackson two BBMs (before one decided to go white) sung the beautiful lyrics “…this is my message to you."


/PSA/diatribe/Gettysburg Address/my last 'Will and Testament' I leave with you on this topic since I put it all out there. In the end everyone wants the same 3 Pieces/Peaces in life to be happy; a Peace of mind, a piece of food for their stomachs, and a piece of ass but having 2 out of 3 is not bad either so I'll take the Peace of mind, and piece of food to sustain my life with. The last piece is not as significant to be happy or sustains one life.

Peace be unto you all.

~BBB76

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Well spoken!
 
Let us summarize: Some people here are real, some are fakes, some are nice, some are rude and crude. For us, the former is what we're looking for ;) .... and we just filter the rest :rolleyes:


Bigblackbull76 on here is indeed a "persona" to some degree as he points out, but he is also a real person, one we have actually met a few times and has become more than just a "BBC," he is our friend.

He's a nice guy :happy:





Oh, and yeah OK, he does have a nice big cock :blackgrimace:


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BigBlackBull, I recognized early on, your intelligence and literate skillset as you communicated on BtW. But today, this was one of the most well written post ever presented. All your reflections were accurate on target. Yes we do need more mature brothers participating in the IR process, and not just viewing the women as bitches and ho's (regardless of what the women are saying). The women here who are sharing their bodies (willingly), need to be respected, and not denigrated or objectified as sluts. Yes it's a term used privately among couples having adult fun, but publicly we should always communicate in respectful ways to the ladies here. Not all are mature MILFs, some are young and experimenting with IR and some are Milfs curious and desiring an IR encounter. We need to respect them all.

Your writing also points out in a subtle way that in some ways, some folks (black and white) are allowing to the IR process to denigrate into a racist Mandingo type ******* for the amusement of others.

So along with Torpedo, and Falcon and others who try to maintain some adult (grown-up) maturity to the site, please continue writing and making BtW better.
OSP
@OldSchoolPlayer25 - Thanks alot for your praise and I appreciate all of the Big Brotherly love and OG recognition as always.

Perhaps you should re-read his post about ALL the females on here being fake. And only HE has met the real one...Plus for my part. His making his posts all about himself and his how good he is how everyone loves him is over posturing at least, bragging at best. Not something I would ever find attractive in a guy. But as I said at the time. Self praise is no advertisement.

@Daphne&D - Wow so if that's what you derived from my post then your eyes and mind are really clouded (I'll get to why) and blocked from receiving the message I was conveying. Do you also see dark clouds blocking the sun everywhere you go, and the water glass as being half empty from a scarcity of resources by missing love,& joy, and never half full from a life of abundance with love,peace,& happiness which you can find from within and without?

Perhaps it is you that should re-read my Post after reading this post here since the message seemed to have missed registering with you the first time. I first started off the Post mentioning about 'ALL' of the REAL females I have met on this site, my own failed attempt on meeting one lady on here that I really wanted to meet, and other moments of self-humiliation. I also stated that the post was a reflection on conversations I had with a multiple of people I have met on the site so it was an expression of a collective thought and not 'All about me'. I also admitted to my own short-comings with having an Ego - yet to 'err' is human and we all have our own inner battles and character flaws we need to polish. "Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye. " -Mathew 7:5

I actually spent the majority of the post addressing to my fellow BigBlackCock brother's in arms about ways to improve their interaction with women on a more civil level and not so much debauchery which you would think most women would applaud. And on the point of attraction, you my dear are in the minute minority of women who don't find a beautiful, intelligent, and confident Black man with a BBC who can clearly express his thoughts and feelings on here as attractive. Your so minute in fact as of right now your only in the company of one. Ooops sorry, oh but yet here I go again beginning to brag about how good I am and how everybody loves me and my dominant posturing. Oh yeah but that's right, isn't that what Alpha's and leaders of men do and why other men and women submit and follow them? And you can see all of the praise being given to me from others which is always better, I never even have to give any praise to myself and remain humble by it.

Anyway, if a person doesn't have some haters or one who denounces them then it only means that they aren't really doing anything that is getting them alot of attention. Anyone who stands-out in the fore-front and gets alot of attention will always breed some jealousy, envy, or contempt with others which the latter feeling is what I derived from your post. Its a trait of a small and close-minded person clouded with insecure emotions who even have time to focus on someone else instead of what they could be doing with their lives and themselves. I'm so busy living my own life doing BIG things and being the best that I can be that I don't have time to worry or criticize anyone else which is so small as a way of living.

Let us summarize: Some people here are real, some are fakes, some are nice, some are rude and crude. For us, the former is what we're looking for ;) .... and we just filter the rest :rolleyes:

Bigblackbull76 on here is indeed a "persona" to some degree as he points out, but he is also a real person, one we have actually met a few times and has become more than just a "BBC," he is our friend.

He's a nice guy :happy:

Oh, and yeah OK, he does have a nice big cock :blackgrimace:.

@Elelator_Cpl - thx for your love and support too. Some say I'm nice because they are nice to me. Some say I'm naughty because they are naughty with me. But what I am really is just a Big Bad Black Mutha-Fucka who will fuck up anyone who fucks with him. Start no trouble and there will be no trouble - its that simple.

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“He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.”

“I know where I’m going and I know the truth, and I don’t have to be what you want me to be. I’m free to be what I want.”

“I am the greatest. I said that even before I knew I was. I figured that if I said it enough, I would convince the world that I really was the greatest.”

"I'm bad! Been chopin' trees. I done somethin' new for this fight. I done wrassled with an alligator. That's right. I have wrassled with an alligator. I done tussled with a whale. I done handcuffed lightning, throwed thunder in jail. That's bad. Only last week I murdered a rock, injured a stone, hospitalized a brick. I'm so mean, I make medicine sick."

~All Muhammad Ali Qoutes~
 
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Im about to give you the truth, the whole, pure, undiluted nothing but the truth but many of you can't handle the truth.

You can either love me or Hate me after this post (and please save all your hate-mail cause I got enough to read as it is) but this needed to be said.

This is going to also serve as sort of a Public Service Announcement (PSA). So everyone should grab a pad and pen, sit-up straight, but relax and take notes for 'here is wisdom, he that hath understanding’ (to quote the Book of Revelations from the Bible).

First off speaking from my own personal experiences and to provide a level of credibility, I’ve now met and played with over several couples from this site alone three of them I’ve met twice, one called me back the very next day to play again which we did and I’ve met one woman who has become my secret-lover that I see weekly from off here whom I’m going to come back to discussing at the end of this post. I even had 3 couples (2 from here, and 1 not from here) contacted me on the same-day about meeting which I had to do a coin-flip between the three to choose which one to meet.

I’ve talked to almost several other women and couples where situations occurred that prevented us from meeting. Sometimes it was on my-side, sometimes theirs but I never complained nor have they and I still correspond with a few of them not on this site but by personal email and phone even many months after the failed meeting attempts.

I was near @MyLoveyLaurita ’s location some many months ago and we tried to meet but the timing didn’t work out and we still communicate to this day via my gmail account. I didn’t get pissed at them and understood their situation at the time. Same with @Bamagirl, and @TIH whom I appreciated them being patient with what would seem like me flaking out on them and I haven’t seen them complain.

There was only ONE lady on here (who is part of a couple somewhere on the east coast & I won’t out her so don’t ask me about them) that I really put a significant effort in to pursue after we chatted a few times on here, then ironically and funny enough I saw her profile on xhamster, chatted with her hubby more on there than I ever chatted with his wife, and both he and I are confused on what the hell is going on in her head and why we couldn’t make the final arrangement to meet. And it was her I chatted with as she verified on here as a ‘Real Person’ with real face pics on here and hamster both and there were some things as a woman she was taking care of so it wasn’t the hubby or guy faking. Still I didn't complain, thats just how life is and I moved on.

So first off an Announcement for Everyone on this site:

People need to relax with all the complaining about fakes, people fantasizing, not wanting to meet, etc. This is a free website set-up for people to socialize online for FREE. This is not a paid-membership site where anyone paid money to join for the purpose of meeting other people. Therefore because anyone is free to join the site with no requirements you have no way of weeding out the fake and flakes up-front before they get an account. People who join a site where they have to pay using real money wouldn’t be wasting their ‘real’ money to fool around faking and flaking on a website if the purpose of it was to meet. There could be some sadistic rich folk out there who do that, but the average person wouldn’t.

So end all of the complaining on here about people not meeting, who’s real, or who’s not. If you want to meet someone REAL goto a paid site as the odds are much higher that the other members on that site would be real, have more real-pics available, and will REALLY meet.

Second an Announcement for all the Men (mostly my brothers) on this site:

I observe too many men on here who go O.D. (overdose) with sexual perversions (I know its a sex-site but DAM), who seem socially awkward, and AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps). To see a perfect example of an AFC just watch the comedy show one-time called “The Last Man on Earth” that comes on FOX and how this guy who even being the last man on Earth with 2 women still couldn’t get laid because he is an idiot and doesn’t know how to be genuine or care enough to get a woman to like him. Whats also sad and ironic is that even after both women admitted they are horny, need a man, and that they should repopulate the planet he still sabotages himself from getting laid. I think the show will go and on with him never getting laid, he is just the typical average clueless guy or AFC and I know a lot of women understand what I’m talking about on this cause I recognize it and laugh now too.

In real life you are not going to just walk up to a woman, show her a pic of your cock, and ask her do you want to fuck, or do you like me and want be my girlfriend? Your chances are slim to none on that happening and its no different on here albeit your odds are slightly higher it might work if your cock pics are just that amazing and the chic is that much of a slut but I digress. :blackgrimace: Many guys are just hoping that it is easier on here were they don’t have to go through the anxiety of approaching a woman in real-life since they are already frustrated in the real-world on meeting women to have sex with. I have heard alot of complaints from couples and women that a lot of guys are way too rude, non-respectful, and egomaniacs. I can’t really help you guys on the manners part as that is something your parents should have taught you and if you don’t have it now you probably never will get it either. On the Ego part I’m guilty of it too, yeah I got a big cock, I get told all the time I got a big-one, the thing is like a hot-commodity women/couples are demanding and it makes my head-big but to err is human and we all have ego’s and IDs we have to confront and handle but I won’t go all 'Sigmund Freud' on you at this moment (I'll save that for another post another time).

To help you fellas out, stop interfacing just through the silicon computer chips, and copper wires of the internet and learn how to interact socially with a real woman in the flesh and *******. Yes learn dammit. It can be done and it is also done partly through trial and error and not being afraid to make mistakes as you learn from all those mistakes. Learn the successes and mistakes of other men too. Develop a sense of humor, read some Cosmo, and other chic magazines (at your local grocery store as I never buy the rubbish) and find out what women like, what they want from men, relationships, and what they think about. Then search your local papers & websites for announcements on events where single women will congregate, get yourselves cleaned up and groomed, couldn’t hurt to stop drinking soda to drop some extra-weight, and ask another woman about your dress and hair style. Then go out and approach and interact using some of that ******* from Cosmo/chic mags and everywhere else. Then use all of what you learned on what to do and not to do going forward. Learn how to engage women and hold a conversation.

This ******* will take you a long way, and you may not even need to come back on here. I have applied all of those recommendations and it has made me successful to where when I do meet a woman/couple face to face I am able to consummate the deal. If you can socially interact better on an internet website in a non-perverted and not as socially awkward manner, your chances will go up dramatically. And provide some additional pictures of yourselves like better body-shots or of furry-animals besides just close-ups of your dicks would help too.

Third, last but certainly not least an Announcement to all of the women (all women except Black cause this would not apply to them), white men, and couples on this site:

I have seen a few posts before from people on this site discussing about this topic but it didn’t really hit home with me until I read something by my brother @Splitter posted on here a few days ago[1] and then my secret-lover who’ve I met via this site here made a statement about this to me just the other night. My secret-lover who is a married white woman said she left this site (account no longer exists) because it disgusted her. One thing she said to me was that she understood who I said I was, what I was going to do, and what I thought I had to do because I think I am the BigBlackBull. She has repeatedly expressed that she has issues with it but so long as I am good and respectful to her she did not care about the other aspects of what I may do. But she has also expressed and emphasized to me on more than one occasion that I am MUCH more than just the BigBlackBull or a BBC. She said she has never-ever met anyone Black or white like me (and not talking about just in the bed or my physical anatomy), and that I could easily be remembered as some significant figure immortalized in world history for who I am and the impact I have as a person in the real-world. She said I should not be objectified or just looked at as a sexual object and that was one out of many things that she does not like nor understood why I put up with it as well. With her words and what I have read a few other brothers write and express they hit me like a one-two punch from Pacquiao or Mayweather.

They were, and are all right. Instead of the 1-2 combo putting my lights out and having my bell rung it actually opened my eyes to see the light instead. Blackmen with their amazing BBC (BigBlackCocks) are much much more than just a BBC or something to be just objectified. Remember that they (Black Men), we, ‘I’ are much more than a sexual toy to play with on occasions and then put away like your vibrator in the drawer or your car in the garage. First see and refer to them as Beautiful Black Men (BBM), Black Male Studs (BMS) or whatever else you want to come up with and second that they have a BBC that you enjoy experiencing. But remember not to objectify them (or me).

And as Bob Marley, and Michael Jackson two BBMs (before one decided to go white) sung the beautiful lyrics “…this is my message to you."

My PSA/diatribe/Gettysburg Address/last 'Will and Testament' I leave with you on this topic since I put it all out there. In the end everyone wants the same 3 Pieces/Peaces in life to be happy; a Peace of mind, a piece of food for their stomachs, and a piece of ass but having 2 out of 3 is not bad either so I'll take the Peace of mind, and piece of food to sustain my life with. The last piece is not as significant to be happy or sustains one life.

Peace be unto you all.

~BBB76

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PSA - part.2

An addendum to the 'Second an Announcement for all the Men (mostly my brothers) on this site':

Well I had initially said in the 1st PSA that I had nothing else to add after I laid it all out there on sharing a collective group thought about this site of the many things said and done by people on here.

However I have been receiving numerous emails from my fellow brothers still asking me for advice on how to be successful on this site since they state it looks to them like I've been doing well.

Well as easy as it is for me to communicate, express my thoughts clearly, and convey an articulate written message I have still had a hard time to write anything really helpful to my brothers because I can't bottle up and offer a potion of wisdom for them to ******* from that would help them on being successful from all of my life experiences that made me into the person that I am.

Well that was until I read an intro post by a female from a couple on here. This is what she stated:

"We hope to make friends here and I hope to find some of the higher grade black men I've see here. Lol

Want to meet up someday? Here's how:
1) Be nice and real.
2) Actually write to me. Intelligence is hot!
3) Ask for my husbands email.
4) Be willing to have my husband call you, ask for a photo and basic information.
5) Have a skype account.
6) We set up a date."


So lets go through and observe some of the things she had said. First she said that she "... hope to find some of the higher grade black men Ive see(n) here." Well what do you guys think she mean's by that statement? I have my own interpretation but you guys should ponder on that.

At #1 and its no mistake that its at that number she says 'Be nice' and Real'. I had written in the PSA that: "I have heard a lot of complaints from couples and single women that a lot of guys are way too rude, non-respectful, and egomaniacs. I can’t really help you guys on the manners part as that is something your parents should have taught you and if you don’t have it now you probably never will get it either."

What may help is if you guys took a course and learned some lessons in manners and etiquette. I took a one-day class in etiquette, using proper social manners, how to use the right fork for salad and dinner at the table, etc. There is nothing wrong with learning these basic things if you think your deficient in those areas. There may be some women turned on by some of the Thuggish and ruggish look and talk but probably not many of the women who have jobs, are older ,and come on this website who may also happen to be married.

At #2, she said "Actually write to me. Intelligence is hot!" Again not a mistake she listed this at #2, a man needs to have some intelligence to know how to write in the first place. Again not an area I can help anyone with if they aren't using their big head over the little one to think with.

Alot of women have immediately complimented me when we started off communicating on here by private conversation that I was the only guy to take the time out to actually write them a message out of most of the guys who have contacted them. Here is a quote from a message I received just last night from the time of me writing this post:

"Out of all of the guys who I have chatted with here you stand out and I do have interest, but I'm taking things a bit slow for now, until I get a little more comfortable with how things work here. Too many guys trying to get personal info or meet after noting more than just a "Hey, lets fuck" message lol. You actually took the time to write a nice one, which makes you stand out just as much as all those hot photos you sent :)".


So there you have it all my real brothers who are 'nice' (at least nice to the ladies in the way they want a man to approach them), and have some intelligence as again I quote revelations from the bible: "...here is wisdom, he that hath understanding."

Take heed to these words that I manifest and they may help you out to achieve some of that success you all perceive to think I possess.

Your fellow Bull Gladiator in the Coliseum Battle for victory in life's endeavors;

~BBB76

 
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PSA - part.2

An addendum to the 'Second an Announcement for all the Men (mostly my brothers) on this site':

Well I had initially said in the 1st PSA that I had nothing else to add after I laid it all out there on sharing a collective group thought about this site of the many things said and done by people on here.

However I have been receiving numerous emails from my fellow brothers still asking me for advice on how to be successful on this site since they state it looks to them like I've been doing well.

Well as easy as it is for me to communicate, express my thoughts clearly, and convey an articulate written message I have still had a hard time to write anything really helpful to my brothers because I can't bottle up and offer a potion of wisdom for them to ******* from that would help them on being successful from all of my life experiences that made me into the person that I am.

Well that was until I read an intro post by a female from a couple on here. This is what she stated:

"We hope to make friends here and I hope to find some of the higher grade black men I've see here. Lol

Want to meet up someday? Here's how:
1) Be nice and real.
2) Actually write to me. Intelligence is hot!
3) Ask for my husbands email.
4) Be willing to have my husband call you, ask for a photo and basic information.
5) Have a skype account.
6) We set up a date."


So lets go through and observe some of the things she had said. First she said that she "... hope to find some of the higher grade black men Ive see(n) here." Well what do you guys think she mean's by that statement? I have my own interpretation but you guys should ponder on that.

At #1 and its no mistake that its at that number she says 'Be nice' and Real'. I had written in the PSA that: "I have heard a lot of complaints from couples and single women that a lot of guys are way too rude, non-respectful, and egomaniacs. I can’t really help you guys on the manners part as that is something your parents should have taught you and if you don’t have it now you probably never will get it either."

What may help is if you guys took a course and learned some lessons in manners and etiquette. I took a one-day class in etiquette, using proper social manners, how to use the right fork for salad and dinner at the table, etc. There is nothing wrong with learning these basic things if you think your deficient in those areas. There may be some women turned on by some of the Thuggish and ruggish look and talk but probably not many of the women who have jobs, are older ,and come on this website who may also happen to be married.

At #2, she said "Actually write to me. Intelligence is hot!" Again not a mistake she listed this at #2, a man needs to have some intelligence to know how to write in the first place. Again not an area I can help anyone with if they aren't using their big head and not the little one to think with.

Alot of women have immediately complimented me when we started off communicating on here by private conversation that I was the only guy to take the time out to actually write them a message out of most of the guys who have contacted them. Here is a quote from a message I received just last night from the time of me writing this post:

"Out of all of the guys who I have chatted with here you stand out and I do have interest, but I'm taking things a bit slow for now, until I get a little more comfortable with how things work here. Too many guys trying to get personal info or meet after noting more than just a "Hey, lets fuck" message lol. You actually took the time to write a nice one, which makes you stand out just as much as all those hot photos you sent :)".


So there you have it all my real brothers who are 'nice' (at least nice to the ladies in the way they want a man to approach them), and have some intelligence as again I quote revelations from the bible: "...here is wisdom, he that hath understanding."

Take heed to these words that I manifest and they may help you out to achieve some of that success you all perceive to think I possess.

Your fellow Bull Gladiator in the Coliseum Battle for victory in life's endeavors;

~BBB76

To put my opinion to this conversation, I do find the posting by the female of that couple to be very much what I look for as well.

Being nice and articulate is an obvious attraction to ladies that for some reason, seems to escape many men. "hey baby, wanna fuck" won't get you anywhere face to face, so why assume it will work here? Being articulate and spelling words correctly show intelligence. It's the first impression a person gets on any on line communication. We all can't be Shakespeare, but please try your best. And while I'm on the subject, never assume the "gansta" persona will work. Most of the time it won't. I'm not a whore, so don't talk to me like a pimp.

Never assume the husband is cuckold. Mine isn't. We both enjoy my activities. He keeps me very happy, thank you. And thank him, or ask me to thank him, for allowing you to be with me. A man doesn't have to share his wife. I'll definitely see a man again if he is respectful to my husband.

Be neat and dress neatly. Again, first impressions count. A suit isn't necessary, but wear something nice. We dress to impress. You should too.

Lastly, respect my boundaries. I don't do anal and tell men up front. If you absolutely must have something she isn't willing to give, move on. I hate "I'll be gentle with you baby, you'll love it from me". And always ask where you can cum. Girls have boundaries about that.

That being said, thank you bigblackbull for the insightful comments. I've enjoyed your postings and QofS interviews. (your comment on my verification post make me feel on top of the world) Hopefully I've added something constructive to this thread.
 
Im about to give you the truth, the whole, pure, undiluted nothing but the truth but many of you can't handle the truth.

You can either love me or Hate me after this post (and please save all your hate-mail cause I got enough to read as it is) but this needed to be said.

This is going to also serve as sort of a Public Service Announcement (PSA). So everyone should grab a pad and pen, sit-up straight, but relax and take notes for 'here is wisdom, he that hath understanding’ (to quote the Book of Revelations from the Bible).

First off speaking from my own personal experiences and to provide a level of credibility, I’ve now met and played with over several couples from this site alone three of them I’ve met twice, one called me back the very next day to play again which we did and I’ve met one woman who has become my secret-lover that I see weekly from off here whom I’m going to come back to discussing at the end of this post. I even had 3 couples (2 from here, and 1 not from here) contacted me on the same-day about meeting which I had to do a coin-flip between the three to choose which one to meet.

I’ve talked to almost several other women and couples where situations occurred that prevented us from meeting. Sometimes it was on my-side, sometimes theirs but I never complained nor have they and I still correspond with a few of them not on this site but by personal email and phone even many months after the failed meeting attempts.

I was near @MyLoveyLaurita ’s location some many months ago and we tried to meet but the timing didn’t work out and we still communicate to this day via my gmail account. I didn’t get pissed at them and understood their situation at the time. Same with @Bamagirl, and @TIH whom I appreciated them being patient with what would seem like me flaking out on them and I haven’t seen them complain.

There was only ONE lady on here (who is part of a couple somewhere on the east coast & I won’t out her so don’t ask me about them) that I really put a significant effort in to pursue after we chatted a few times on here, then ironically and funny enough I saw her profile on xhamster, chatted with her hubby more on there than I ever chatted with his wife, and both he and I are confused on what the hell is going on in her head and why we couldn’t make the final arrangement to meet. And it was her I chatted with as she verified on here as a ‘Real Person’ with real face pics on here and hamster both and there were some things as a woman she was taking care of so it wasn’t the hubby or guy faking. Still I didn't complain, thats just how life is and I moved on.

So first off an Announcement for Everyone on this site:

People need to relax with all the complaining about fakes, people fantasizing, not wanting to meet, etc. This is a free website set-up for people to socialize online for FREE. This is not a paid-membership site where anyone paid money to join for the purpose of meeting other people. Therefore because anyone is free to join the site with no requirements you have no way of weeding out the fake and flakes up-front before they get an account. People who join a site where they have to pay using real money wouldn’t be wasting their ‘real’ money to fool around faking and flaking on a website if the purpose of it was to meet. There could be some sadistic rich folk out there who do that, but the average person wouldn’t.

So end all of the complaining on here about people not meeting, who’s real, or who’s not. If you want to meet someone REAL goto a paid site as the odds are much higher that the other members on that site would be real, have more real-pics available, and will REALLY meet.

Second an Announcement for all the Men (mostly my brothers) on this site:

I observe too many men on here who go O.D. (overdose) with sexual perversions (I know its a sex-site but DAM), who seem socially awkward, and AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps). To see a perfect example of an AFC just watch the comedy show one-time called “The Last Man on Earth” that comes on FOX and how this guy who even being the last man on Earth with 2 women still couldn’t get laid because he is an idiot and doesn’t know how to be genuine or care enough to get a woman to like him. Whats also sad and ironic is that even after both women admitted they are horny, need a man, and that they should repopulate the planet he still sabotages himself from getting laid. I think the show will go and on with him never getting laid, he is just the typical average clueless guy or AFC and I know a lot of women understand what I’m talking about on this cause I recognize it and laugh now too.

In real life you are not going to just walk up to a woman, show her a pic of your cock, and ask her do you want to fuck, or do you like me and want be my girlfriend? Your chances are slim to none on that happening and its no different on here albeit your odds are slightly higher it might work if your cock pics are just that amazing and the chic is that much of a slut but I digress. :blackgrimace: Many guys are just hoping that it is easier on here were they don’t have to go through the anxiety of approaching a woman in real-life since they are already frustrated in the real-world on meeting women to have sex with. I have heard alot of complaints from couples and women that a lot of guys are way too rude, non-respectful, and egomaniacs. I can’t really help you guys on the manners part as that is something your parents should have taught you and if you don’t have it now you probably never will get it either. On the Ego part I’m guilty of it too, yeah I got a big cock, I get told all the time I got a big-one, the thing is like a hot-commodity women/couples are demanding and it makes my head-big but to err is human and we all have ego’s and IDs we have to confront and handle but I won’t go all 'Sigmund Freud' on you at this moment (I'll save that for another post another time).

To help you fellas out, stop interfacing just through the silicon computer chips, and copper wires of the internet and learn how to interact socially with a real woman in the flesh and *******. Yes learn dammit. It can be done and it is also done partly through trial and error and not being afraid to make mistakes as you learn from all those mistakes. Learn the successes and mistakes of other men too. Develop a sense of humor, read some Cosmo, and other chic magazines (at your local grocery store as I never buy the rubbish) and find out what women like, what they want from men, relationships, and what they think about. Then search your local papers & websites for announcements on events where single women will congregate, get yourselves cleaned up and groomed, couldn’t hurt to stop drinking soda to drop some extra-weight, and ask another woman about your dress and hair style. Then go out and approach and interact using some of that ******* from Cosmo/chic mags and everywhere else. Then use all of what you learned on what to do and not to do going forward. Learn how to engage women and hold a conversation.

This ******* will take you a long way, and you may not even need to come back on here. I have applied all of those recommendations and it has made me successful to where when I do meet a woman/couple face to face I am able to consummate the deal. If you can socially interact better on an internet website in a non-perverted and not as socially awkward manner, your chances will go up dramatically. And provide some additional pictures of yourselves like better body-shots or of furry-animals besides just close-ups of your dicks would help too.

Third, last but certainly not least an Announcement to all of the women (all women except Black cause this would not apply to them), white men, and couples on this site:

I have seen a few posts before from people on this site discussing about this topic but it didn’t really hit home with me until I read something by my brother @Splitter posted on here a few days ago[1] and then my secret-lover who’ve I met via this site here made a statement about this to me just the other night. My secret-lover who is a married white woman said she left this site (account no longer exists) because it disgusted her. One thing she said to me was that she understood who I said I was, what I was going to do, and what I thought I had to do because I think I am the BigBlackBull. She has repeatedly expressed that she has issues with it but so long as I am good and respectful to her she did not care about the other aspects of what I may do. But she has also expressed and emphasized to me on more than one occasion that I am MUCH more than just the BigBlackBull or a BBC. She said she has never-ever met anyone Black or white like me (and not talking about just in the bed or my physical anatomy), and that I could easily be remembered as some significant figure immortalized in world history for who I am and the impact I have as a person in the real-world. She said I should not be objectified or just looked at as a sexual object and that was one out of many things that she does not like nor understood why I put up with it as well. With her words and what I have read a few other brothers write and express they hit me like a one-two punch from Pacquiao or Mayweather.

They were, and are all right. Instead of the 1-2 combo putting my lights out and having my bell rung it actually opened my eyes to see the light instead. Blackmen with their amazing BBC (BigBlackCocks) are much much more than just a BBC or something to be just objectified. Remember that they (Black Men), we, ‘I’ are much more than a sexual toy to play with on occasions and then put away like your vibrator in the drawer or your car in the garage. First see and refer to them as Beautiful Black Men (BBM), Black Male Studs (BMS) or whatever else you want to come up with and second that they have a BBC that you enjoy experiencing. But remember not to objectify them (or me).

And as Bob Marley, and Michael Jackson two BBMs (before one decided to go white) sung the beautiful lyrics “…this is my message to you."

My PSA/diatribe/Gettysburg Address/last 'Will and Testament' I leave with you on this topic since I put it all out there. In the end everyone wants the same 3 Pieces/Peaces in life to be happy; a Peace of mind, a piece of food for their stomachs, and a piece of ass but having 2 out of 3 is not bad either so I'll take the Peace of mind, and piece of food to sustain my life with. The last piece is not as significant to be happy or sustains one life.

Peace be unto you all.

~BBB76

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Such a strong, straight forward and thoughtful post. Probs. You speak nothing but the truth. We need more men (with character) like you.

Best wishes!
 
MEME2015-12-19-01-59-47.jpg This is a great thread. I'll reread it later.

This 'gem' I quoted in meme... This suits a number of my friends humor. Laughs will be had.

I'm going to brush up on my silverware placement knowledge. :)
 
To put my opinion to this conversation, I do find the posting by the female of that couple to be very much what I look for as well.

Being nice and articulate is an obvious attraction to ladies that for some reason, seems to escape many men. "hey baby, wanna fuck" won't get you anywhere face to face, so why assume it will work here? Being articulate and spelling words correctly show intelligence. It's the first impression a person gets on any on line communication. We all can't be Shakespeare, but please try your best. And while I'm on the subject, never assume the "gansta" persona will work. Most of the time it won't. I'm not a whore, so don't talk to me like a pimp.

Never assume the husband is cuckold. Mine isn't. We both enjoy my activities. He keeps me very happy, thank you. And thank him, or ask me to thank him, for allowing you to be with me. A man doesn't have to share his wife. I'll definitely see a man again if he is respectful to my husband.

Be neat and dress neatly. Again, first impressions count. A suit isn't necessary, but wear something nice. We dress to impress. You should too.

Lastly, respect my boundaries. I don't do anal and tell men up front. If you absolutely must have something she isn't willing to give, move on. I hate "I'll be gentle with you baby, you'll love it from me". And always ask where you can cum. Girls have boundaries about that.

That being said, thank you bigblackbull for the insightful comments. I've enjoyed your postings and QofS interviews. (your comment on my verification post make me feel on top of the world) Hopefully I've added something constructive to this thread.
Ginny, between you and the BBB, guys should have absolutely no reason for failing. People are on here for a reason. They are already geared towards wanting others. These tips for people are priceless. For all you people out there, follow these tips. And when in doubt, err on the side of being a gentleman.
P.S. I have the BBB on follow, because I learn so much from him.
 
Ginny, between you and the BBB, guys should have absolutely no reason for failing. People are on here for a reason. They are already geared towards wanting others. These tips for people are priceless. For all you people out there, follow these tips. And when in doubt, err on the side of being a gentleman.
P.S. I have the BBB on follow, because I learn so much from him.
You would think that a lot of what was said in this thread would be obvious, but it isn't always so. I can understand the "pants around the knees" and untied shoelace crowd for thinking rude and crude is cool. But they aren't really represented here. By the time a man hits 30 he should know how to act. But, just today a 30 year old introduced himself with "I want you to be my cum slut" and "love to make a white bitch my slave... Fuck her in front of hubby". Too bad. I could have been interested if he showed some maturity and used the manners his parents (hopefully) taught him.
 
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