We live in the bay area. It's been such a roller coaster with this fantasy. Will she go through with it? Not sure. At times she gets so hot when we mess around but could be just pillow talk. Believe it or not she doesn't see herself as sexy, as someone guys would hit on. Would you hit on her? Ring and all? Wish there was a movie called "50 Shades of Black." She was really turned on by that movie (50 Shades of Gray) and kept asking me to watch the whole movie (I fell asleep the last time we tried to watch it). I told her while we were messing around that I didn't really understand the fascination but many black "bulls" like to be the dominant to a submissive white wife. We watched a little porn but she really prefers soft core... less slapping nasties in the videos..... hence... 50 Shades of BLACK..... Tell me what you guys would do with her. She likes doggie style.... being fucked while straddling a partner who is standing up, fucked against a wall.... etc. Thanks.