Hi all, we are a couple (husband-38, wife-35) who are trying to get some information on the lifestyle. She has had 2 black guys during her college years. It's husbands idea/fantasy and wife is not opposed to it but does have some reservations. The encounter that we're discussing is more along the lines of MFM where the bull would be comfortable with husband watching at first and then joining in and finishing with a DP. Neither one is looking for sissy cuck or to be "owned". The reservations are: 1)Wife is afraid husband does not get excited by her anymore by wanting this to happen. 2)Wife is afraid that husband will be worried about her leaving him for the bull 3)Wife is afraid that husband would think she enjoyed bull more than him 4)Overall awkwardness of encounter.