I'm sure I'm not alone in doing this, but I keep my personal and professional lives very separate. Although I'm happy to discuss my love for BBC online and behind closed doors, I would never tell any of my friends or family about my preferences and lifestyle. So, imagine my surprise today when I walked into a client meeting at work to see another female who I'd previously met at an interracial swinging party! She didn't recognise me at first, but I knew who she was straight away. We'd previously met at a BBC club night about six months ago - although we didn't play together, I saw her with more than one black guy and she had done likewise with me! I introduced myself as if we'd just met and thought that she wouldn't recognise me. However, after the meeting had finished and I'd returned to work, there was an email from her with the subject line 'Have we met before...?!'. There was nothing in the body of the email so I just replied with: "I think we may have done..." I haven't heard back from her since, but I know I'll have to be in touch with her tomorrow in a professional capacity to discuss the outcomes of the meeting. I'm finding it kind of exciting - as I've never discussed my BBC love with anyone in a professional capacity - but I'm praying she's as discrete as I am (that's if she's remembered where she knows me from!). Anyway, that got me thinking. Has anyone else met someone in a swinging/cuckold capacity and then gone on to meet them in an unrelated professional one? I can't be alone surely!