Mexican Wife Wants Houston BBC

I'm a married Hispanic woman looking for a BBC in the Houston area. I've yet to be with another man outside of my marriage, so I'm looking for someone who wouldn't mind taking things rather slow, so that I can decide whether or not this is something I want to do. Basically, I would like to start off with just meeting up for some drinks, talking, and just getting to know someone. If things were to work out, and assuming there was mutual attraction, then I would be interested in doing just the small stuff: fondling, touching, caressing, kissing, etc. There would be no intercourse right away. I'm looking for a black gentleman -- not a punk. I'm 35 years old, so I don't want to spend my time with any immature boys.