Mentor or Disciple

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Lady Dionysus, Jun 11, 2015.

  1. Lady Dionysus

    Lady Dionysus Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    People talk to me, ask questions. For whatever reason, I inspire curiosity and confidence.

    I have supplied multiple women with their first set of toys, and even taught another where her clitoris was. They feel comfortable asking me about things they are too embarrassed or ashamed to ask anyone else, about their deepest desires and taboo fantasies. When they learn I do not believe in monogamy, they are most often shocked - because of the firm, thorough, "good girl" persona that has been taught to them from childhood, even as they are bombarded with nonstop sexual imagery. How does it work, they ask. Don't you get jealous?

    And men... Young men... They are so clueless in the art of sex. And all they have to learn from are pornos and comrades who are as clueless as they are. Is it no wonder so many fumble around searching for satisfying sex, and remain unfulfilled?

    I find it sad that so many people find basic sexual desire dirty, and anything outside of monogamous, missionary style taboo. So every opportunity I get to mentor someone in the art, comfort, and sensuality of sex, I do so. I do not recall ever having one of my own. I truly believe I WAS born this way. Born with a connection to people, a carnal instinct, and a body built for fucking. So I am the teacher... And even those who are experienced have said they enjoyed the lessons.

    Which are you? Mentor and teacher, or disciple and student... Or have you evolved?

    And men: don't answer by saying you are a Bull, so you are by default in charge, the teacher, etc. You may not always have been, and you may not be with every woman. ;-)
     
  2. bigblackbull76

    bigblackbull76 My BBC would bodyslam KingKong off top the Empire Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    @Lady Dionysus - my dear Goddess of fertility and ecstasy, I love the questions you pose for us to ponder. In life one should always strive to be a student and study everything that would help them be the best person one could be. As the saying goes "experience is the best teacher", and one should learn what skills and talents that are innate to them as well as their passions. And after they have studied for long periods of time then could one apply and live what they know to only then become a Master teacher, and Mentor themselves and lead by example.

    I have personally studied and been a disciple to many women who have taught me the fine art and techniques of how to pleasure a women in many delectable ways in addition to having that raging Bull nature already innate in me that they have helped me to hone and bring out. And now after many years on the journey as an apprentice, "the student has become the master" and I am able to mentor not only other men who ask me for advice but also many women now also. Ive met many women who were actually older and asked me for coaching them in the ways of attraction to capture the attention of men they so desire.

    Take this video for instance, this is a great explanation on what men find attractive about women that all women can use to develop themselves into the type of woman that the man they want would be attracted to.



    If video doesn't play watch here:
    http://www.businessinsider.com/scie...-2015-5#ooid=tiMGo5cTpwCabxNRPKR9Te43E3zYrTMd
     
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  3. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Well now, Lady Dionysus, I can't recall having ever been put down in such a clever way. Makes my skills at eating pussy and finding g-spots insignificant.
    Makes me want to turn in my union card. gif_Yellowball-embarrassedBAG.gif
     
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  4. 804Gentleman

    804Gentleman Active Member

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    You have such a way with words. No doubt I always enjoy...you.
     
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  5. Ann4BBC

    Ann4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Ive been a student of all this for last couple of years. My hubby (and my two previous sexual boyfriends) are very vanilla in their lovemaking. Saying that, my hubby is more adventurous and, although not great at sex himself, has pushed my naughty boundary. Getting me into all this and helping me evolve. Then guys i have met have done different, exciting things. Even this site has helped me - ive tried rimming, pussy pumping etc- all of which i had never heard of previously. If someone would have saida couple of years ago some of the things i would end up doing, i would never have believed them!
    For me, the new experiences and evolving sexually is the most important part. I can look back with a smile at some really naughty stuff! X
     
  6. Lady Dionysus

    Lady Dionysus Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I suppose I should have clarified that I am not ALWAYS the teacher... You are correct that there is always something new to learn, even if it is from our own realizations of self. I enjoy meeting new people, and learning about them... Just like reading a new book.

    That video is interesting. And I have very long, healthy, red, hair... Wear no makeup... Have been told I have a very good waist to hip ratio... I think many women try to hard to impress other women, and completely miss what attracts men.

    Now when are we getting that beer? ;-)
     
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  7. Lady Dionysus

    Lady Dionysus Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Now Mac, your rapier wit more than makes up for any perceived insufficiencies... I find you quite engaging.
     
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  8. Lady Dionysus

    Lady Dionysus Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thank you... ;-)
     
  9. Lady Dionysus

    Lady Dionysus Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Finding others that think the way you do, and allow you to explore you curiosities is a wonderful gift. Sites like these give us an opportunity to be ourselves, ask questions and make connections without judgment. As long as all involved are consenting adults, with clear communication, there are few boundaries. Too many people want to explore their true sexual nature, but are afraid or ashamed to do so. Better to get to the end of the journey with fond memories, than regrets.
     
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