Sexuality is fluid, my husband and I identify as pansexual, however my husband is more of a hetro-romantic and sexually bi, he does not see a guy in public and say "I would like to suck his cock, but put a beautiful cock in front of him and yea he'll get to work. We don't believe that you have to really be straight, bi, or gay, it truly depends on the people your with, we've played with guys that identify as straight but when it comes down to the fun most everytime but once the guy opened up to to at least receiving oral from hubby. My husband if you met him in public would never has the slightest inclination of his bi activities. We feel that a lot of guys miss out on many wonderful activities and great times by having these sexual hang-ups, not knocking anyone who identifies as fully "straight" we just don't believe that it truly exists.