May have reached a dead end.

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by want2becuck, Mar 20, 2016.

  1. want2becuck

    want2becuck New Member

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    Over the past year, my wife and I (almost 20 years together) have discussed my desire to see her with an endowed black man. Not necessarily in a cuckold type fashion, but more towards a hotwife sharing type of scenario. She has found the idea or fantasy a turn on, which we role play, but hesitant on going forward.

    In an attempt to try a different approach, I put together a slide presentation pertaining to the all the aspects of a first time BBC experience, with resource links for information about the lifestyle and feedback from others about their experiences living the lifestyle. After she watched my presentation, she thanked me for sharing and being so thorough; even learning some things in the process, but still is adamant that she could not see herself participating in such an act.

    So, there it is. Unless anyone else has a suggestion. Maybe sex therapy? The only option left I see is to respect her wishes and subdue my desires...
     
    #1 want2becuck, Mar 20, 2016
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  2. MILFSEEKERpgh

    MILFSEEKERpgh Active Member

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  3. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    A therapist would laugh at you; if you're starving for humiliation, however, I reckon that would be a good place to get it, at $300 and hour.
    I imagine there are every bit as much of a downside to this activity as there is an upside, and I doubt you dug into the downsize as deeply as you did the upside because it is something you want. So, your common sense & rationality are being blinded. If she cucks you, its going to be because you've pushed her into hunting your replacement, not trying to satisfy your fantasy.
    Your last sentence makes a ton of sense, I say "go with it!"
     
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  4. Mexi-Man

    Mexi-Man Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Hard out here for a cuck.