Married white cpl. Male straight so no guy guy play Charlotte NC/SC

We are a married white cpl that swings race isn't a issue for us. We do have 3some and looking to have more then 2guys for her a once. She isn't into being talked down to. You will have to chat with ER and she will decided if you get to play. She will exchange pics and will chat on YIM an through emails. Until she gets confortable to chat on phone. We are a real cpl. But husband is 100% straight so will be no guy/guy touching.