Hi, We will be visiting New Orleans soon and are looking to make it a memorable trip It's our first trip by ourselves, so we are looking forward to being adults without worries again! We are in our late 30's, happy, secure, and have been talking about an open lifestyle for a while. Any tips would be appreciated. We've read the forums, but it would be nice to hear from others about experiences, do's and dont's, and even if we are thinking too pie-in-the-sky. Is it easy to meet BBC's that are respectful? Should we try online, or just try at the bar? Any tips are appreciated!