Married 20 years

Discussion in 'Introduce Yourself Here' started by MyWifeIsCheating, Aug 15, 2014.

  1. MyWifeIsCheating

    MyWifeIsCheating New Member

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    I found out my wife was cheating on me. I confronted her with it and she admitted it, but didn't really say how long it had been going on. I want her to stop, which she agreed to and I think she did for a while, but now she's back at it. She suggested I join this site, since its where she met her lover.
     
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  2. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    So, by joining this site, what is it exactly that you are looking to gain?
     
  3. MyWifeIsCheating

    MyWifeIsCheating New Member

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    Mostly I was just curious about the site where she met this guy. I think she's hoping I gain insight or acceptance.
     
  4. Hedonist Ninja

    Hedonist Ninja Well-Known Member Real Person

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    So is this trending toward 'I am mad my wife is cheating but I am LIVID that it is with a black guy' or is there some other insight to gain?

    What acceptance are you after? Why should you accept being cheated on? She is cheating on you and that is not cool. You and she need to talk and explore your relationship and see what is concurring and work out what is healthy and proper for your both.

    This is a cool porn site, a great discussion site, a hook up site for some (duh- she is cheating) and a site which attracts some nut jobs with a racial sexual fetishes. This site has much information, yet as far as answers you need, it might not be as good a resource as talking to your wife directly.
     
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  5. MyWifeIsCheating

    MyWifeIsCheating New Member

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    Of course I'm upset that she's been cheating, especially after we talked before and she said she'd break it off with him, but him being black isn't much of a factor and I don't think that makes it any worse.
    And we are talking, but we seemed to reach an impass. Seeing this site does maybe explain some things, considering the types of men that she's probably meet from here. So at least in that way it maybe helps. Time will tell.
     
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  6. Hedonist Ninja

    Hedonist Ninja Well-Known Member Real Person

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    Infidelity can be a chance to examine what is going wrong in the relationship. That could lead to a correction and an improvement for the couple or it may signal the start of the end.

    Good luck in addressing honestly what is occurring and I wish you well in talking to your wife about what took place. I hope there is a positive outcome to this.