I am average body male of 56. She is bbw. weight 95 Kgs. big nice spunchy thighs. nice big round bulging butts. big belly , saggy tummy. whitish but nice photogenic face. with nice smile on her lips. her tits 40 c type.but firm not saggy at this age. i m bold and liberal .but she needs to b motivated. have to; impress her and seduce her . if your wife gives you cooperation for that it will be better.