lots of fakes on the site or people just satisfying their curiosity???

Been here a while now, talked to different wives/couples and women but none has been able to step up. All they want are pics for their personal collection and a forum to satisfy their curiosities? Well, I'm done and guess I should join the wagon and just read threads and contribute without thinking of ever making it a reality. Anybody with the same experience???
i have talked to a few guys here who seemed honest enough..but like any site!!!...it's up to you as to how far u want to take up with the person u chat with here or anywhere...