So we have been out of lifestyle for some years. Wife has worked hard and feels comfortable again with herself to possibly start doing this again. We have been out for about 8 years now. She particularly likes the BBC but wont rule anything out. So here is the questions and advice parts. What sites are best for looking for guys. We used to use DarkCavern and AFF. Problem was sorting through all the BS on AFF. Would do it again if we need. So if you ladies or guys can recommend would be greatly appreciated.
She also does not want to jump in first time and be expecting fucking. Wants to work her way back into it by play first, build up some more confidence and make sure she is going to do it full way again. She was wondering if these things are possible.
* Chatting with, texting, phone calls with guys she likes and see where it goes. Sexy talk ok back and fourth.
* Advertising for a guy to give her full body massage she likes and see where it goes
* Going out and wearing discretely a Queen of Spades Tattoo that is temp and going to places in and around where we live. She will flirt, dance, see where things go, maybe make out, etc..
* Setting up by me some guys she would like to come by her work and just hit on her. She does not like her outfit there as pretty stupid, but it would be good
* My favorite. Finding a hot BBC, athletic, ex-military possibly, that can act as her personal trainer to help her finish loosing those last few pounds and being open to other workout activities. This is a good one as she likes the dual purpose and chances.
Ideally if we go through and continue she would like 1-2 guys to meet monthly or semi-weekly, that's why 2 are good for variety. Got to trust them and make sure they are clean and good. So giving all this any other ideas for things for her to try or us to think about doing and trying. Do not want to have conversations with guys looking to fulfill their hotwife fantasy and make stupid suggestions and discuss their desires for their own hotwife, just open and honest comments and suggestions and messages. She has already purchased new sexy nighties, new toys, all the good things so she can start her training again LOL.
She also does not want to jump in first time and be expecting fucking. Wants to work her way back into it by play first, build up some more confidence and make sure she is going to do it full way again. She was wondering if these things are possible.
* Chatting with, texting, phone calls with guys she likes and see where it goes. Sexy talk ok back and fourth.
* Advertising for a guy to give her full body massage she likes and see where it goes
* Going out and wearing discretely a Queen of Spades Tattoo that is temp and going to places in and around where we live. She will flirt, dance, see where things go, maybe make out, etc..
* Setting up by me some guys she would like to come by her work and just hit on her. She does not like her outfit there as pretty stupid, but it would be good
* My favorite. Finding a hot BBC, athletic, ex-military possibly, that can act as her personal trainer to help her finish loosing those last few pounds and being open to other workout activities. This is a good one as she likes the dual purpose and chances.
Ideally if we go through and continue she would like 1-2 guys to meet monthly or semi-weekly, that's why 2 are good for variety. Got to trust them and make sure they are clean and good. So giving all this any other ideas for things for her to try or us to think about doing and trying. Do not want to have conversations with guys looking to fulfill their hotwife fantasy and make stupid suggestions and discuss their desires for their own hotwife, just open and honest comments and suggestions and messages. She has already purchased new sexy nighties, new toys, all the good things so she can start her training again LOL.
