My wife and I are both in our 50's. She loves a good "nasty" massage with a boy toy and then lets things happen on their own. She likes younger men and the massage gives her confidence. She is a bit submissive and will do what she is told, but if you come on to strong she will shut down. Husband is a bit "bi", submissive and a cuckold. Let’s wife enjoy herself while looking and then joins in the action. He will follow wife’s directions. She gets a bit turned off with “dick” picks and would need to see something more “G” Rated.