Hi, I just found your site . I don't know if this is the right place to ask but I need advice from somone that may have experienced this problem . My husband introduced me to this lifestyle about six months ago after years of trying to get me to do this . I am Asian my husband is white and we have been married for four years , I am 34 yrs old and he is 43 years old . I dont have children , he has two from a previous marriage . My husband had a vasectomy before we were married so we are unable to have children. The problem is my lover wants me to have his baby . This is the only lover I have had in the six months we have been in the lifestyle . My husband has not had sex with me since we started . My lover is 32 years old , attractive , and black . Since my husband introduced us , the three of us have become very good friends . My husband made an agreement with him that I would belong to my lover once we commit to him . The problem is my husband is concerned that he is white and my lover is black . Just looking for some advice . thanks