Looking for a Black Man in the Sacramento CA area

I am a 24 year old white BBW women.
I have a boyfriend, but I also have a fantasy about meeting with a Black man (with a BIG cock).
Basicly, I want to be picked up, go out for drinks, go to a club, go shoot pool, or something like that, then head back to his place for a night of kinky fun, then be dropped off at home.
The "catch" is that I want to be able to send my boyfriend kinky little text messages and cell phone pics/videos all night teasing him about what I am doing. I would also like to bring a camera, and video recorder along so that when I go home at the end of the night, I can seriously tease the hell out of my Boyfriend with what I did all night.

I live in North Highlands, CA.