I like my woman to be provocative in public and a bit of a flirt. She dresses a bit more conservative than I would dress her, but then we manage 2 teens (a ******* 15) so we try to lead by examples. Funny, though, not too long ago my wife was giving me a kiss and had her hand on my butt, and our ******* rolled her eyes and said "you guys need to get a room".
Personnally, I think being a bit passionate in front of the ******* is good, as it gives them reassurance that things are well with us.
In private, I love her to be uninhibited, creative, and insatiable. I like her to talk a little trash ... not too heavy, but to reassure me that she's enjoying herself. If she gives me a BJ, I want her smacking her lips afterwards and telling me how good I tasted. And, I want her to tell me what turns HER on. If its another woman, so be it; if its a black, stud hung to his knees, that too! I want to see her sexually satisfied ... period!