A few years ago, I was invited to a friend‘s place for New Year’s Eve. Turns out it was just four of us for the night. Me, I was still married at the time but single.. my friend and her husband both White. The fourth was a single Black friend of theirs.
Anyway, somewhere in the wee hours of the night, our discussions got a little racing. We were talking about size and she says in front of her husband.” size does not matter., as long as it’s over eight and Black”.
kind of at the time took me by surprise.