So me and my gf (late 20s) have been together for the better part of a decade and love eachother to death. We both get turned on by the swinging/hotwife lifestyle and it really fires us up. Ive gotten her to admit while eating her out that her favorite fantasy is me kicking back and watching her put on a show with another man. About a year ago while talking about it i mentioned id love to see her fuck a black guy and i think she was kind of stunned so i let it sink in before bring it up again. She is a shy petite small town girl who can be a real fire cracker but can also be very shy and reluctant to open up. She has teased me before about black men flirting with her while out shopping or has joked about checking out a goodlooking black guy she seen somewhere but also acts uninterested sometimes when i bring it up. How do i tell if she would be down for this? How do i know if shes really into it or just uses it to fire me up? She does open up sexually with me but i feel like she gets shy again when i bring this up. I will say that one night we had a few drinks and watched a movie that joked about black men fucking white women and boy we had great sex that night. Any tips on figuring out whether shes into this or just playing along here and there to please me?
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