Hi Jazzmo, i'll give you a bit of feedback of my first time last year. I went through a lot of emotions before i did it. I was worried about going back to the guys flat, was worried what to do (as was a bit like going on a first date), i had doubts if hubby really wanted me to do it and what he would be like afterwards, I wanted hubby to come and watch but he didnt want to. And, yes, i was worried about the size. Looking back was more pleasurable , I feel, than the actual night. I was too nervous really and didnt feel in control. The guy was nice though and took his time, he made sure he turned me on first and Ive since found out thats crucial fitting it in. After a bit of pushing etc he fitted his large cock in me and i relaxed. He was a lot younger and stronger than hubby and had far more stamina. The sex was really great, felt really stretched and worn out. He didnt wear a condom (i know naughty, naughty!) and came in me a lot which hubby later loved.
Looking back it was a fantastic night but was scared going into it. Any black guys going into this i hope will appreciate how scary it is the first time!