This is a forum, a place for discussion and exchange of ideas. It is also a fantasy site; some, if not most of its users are just playing out a fantasy with have no intention of meeting or are not who they present themselves to be. That said, if you intention is to hook-up with someone, I suggest you try a local bar or club. If you prefer to hook up online, then I suggest adultfriendfinder.com or a similar site.