Just bought first black dildo for my wife.

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by buckeyev, Feb 19, 2014.

  1. buckeyev

    buckeyev New Member

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    My wife is very conservative with sex. We use some vibrators and she enjoys clitoral stimulation. I have inserted some vibrating dildos (Jopen and pulsating rabbit) into her only when she is really horny. The biggest being maybe 6-1/2 inches in length and 5 inches in girth. I bought the Doc Johnson Realistic R5 8 inch black dildo, which is 6 inches in girth. I used it on her the other night...probably wasn't ready for it as she would only take maybe 3 inches of it and really didn't respond to it. Based on past experience, when she is really horny, I think she can take it all and would really like it...and I want her to enjoy it. I am really excited about the next time... in fact, I just bought the UR3 Realistic 8 inch that vibrates. This one feels very realistic. I admit to the fantasy of seeing my wife fucked by a big black cock while I am watching. I don't think that we could ever really go through with it...and I can never see myself bringing this topic up to her. So, I just keep thinking about seeing her take the entire black dildos and fantasizing that it is a real black cock. My only conecern is that if this may permanently stretch her a bit and it will affect how she feels about my cock...almost 6 inches but a ltille less than 5 in girth. Anybody have similar experiences?
     
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  2. allanbradl

    allanbradl New Member

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    I can tell you few things from myexperience: get an electric heating pad from Walmart , set on low heat (your doc Jonson may melt on med or hi). In the evening put some porn flick on and just lay along discussing what you see, she might be interested in what and how other people are doing "it". When she is ready (you will figure it out), rub her with your fingers and feel if she is wet. Make her a compliment. Pull out your dildo (smallest one if you heve few) and see if it is not scalding hot, pour some h2o lubricant and slowly enter her. When ready, pull out a bigger dildo and repeat. You will be surprised! Nothing is more repulsive than a cold piece of rubber(doc Jonson ur3 smells badly too). Now, a warm dildo will attract extra blood to her genital tissue and will also make her feel comfortable. If she will not get hooked, send me her cum stained panties and I will eat it piece by piece. Now , jokes aside, there is a wonderful dildo for beginners by topco (Cybercock 8") it does not smell, feels incredible (similar to dj) and it retains heat for quite some time inside a pussy. I have 95% confidence that heating pad alone is enough, but if you get her white cybercock she will not mind. Ones gets "hooked" you can bring any color you like, it want matter anymore. I know this will work. Drop us a line when you try this Friday : )
     
  3. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I can tell you my wife has been using large dildos and other objects as she Is into being stretched. We have been doing this for many years. Her pussy will permanently stretch a little. My wife is definitely looser than before but not bad. In fact I think her pussy feels better now and it is not to loose even for my small 5" cock.
     
  4. buckeyev

    buckeyev New Member

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    Thanks for the message. I appreciate the insight and help. I invite any other comments as well. I will advise as we have our next encounter with this. I can't wait!
     
  5. buckeyev

    buckeyev New Member

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    Well, I want to report back that I used the 8 inch UR3 Black vibrating dildo on my wife last weekend. She was able to take a little bit more this time...about 4 inches of it. I think that I may alternate and go back to the 8 inch R5 Black dildo next time. I am finding that she needs to be horny and wet to take this dildo. I am still waiting for the PERFECT time that she takes it all...there have been times in the past (pre didlo purchase) that I wish I had these as I am confident that she would hve Fucked the shit out of them...and I cannot wait until it comes again. She was bucking into my fingereing and it would have been PERFECT for these Big Black Dildos to Fuck her with. I will report back...hoperfully very soon.
     
  6. allanbradl

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    I wonder if you have tried to per-heat your dildo because it may make a whole world of a difference.
     
  7. FreakyJerseyCouple

    FreakyJerseyCouple New Member

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    We bought one about a week back, looks very real, and it has spiced up our sex life so much.
     
  8. buckeyev

    buckeyev New Member

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    Another report. Used again last weekend. Was able to get maybe 5 inches and then it starting hurting her. I would really like her to take all 8 inches...and I know when she is really horny and wet that I think she can...but I don't want to make it painful for her. I look forward to the day that I am just fucking her hard with ALL 8 inches in length and 6 inches in girth of the big black dick.
     
  9. buckeyev

    buckeyev New Member

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    Here is an update. Well my wife and I had quite a few cocktails so I thought the moment was "right" again to try this. I eneded up fucking her with both 8 inch Black Dildos. She took all 8 inches for the First Time! It was awesome. I kept switching back and for with my cock and the dildos. It was a great sight to see the thick long black dicks fucking my wife. The next day, she gave the impression that she did not want me to use them again as it felt like a "freight train" was being used on her. Now that she has mentioned this, what should I do? Should I buy a little smaller dildo?...maybe 6 inches...? I would really like to continue this but I do not want to upset her.
     
  10. Ann4BBC

    Ann4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Difficult one as you dont want to upset her. I started with my old friend Doc Johnson, it helped me move on to the real thing. Strangely though I could never take all the Doc but I can with a guy. Dont know if thats because I more excited or the guy knows what hes doing, so tell your wife she doesnt have to take the whole Doc and she will still be ok with the real thing.
    So continue with it but take it easy. X
     
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    Me with Doc
     

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  12. buckeyev

    buckeyev New Member

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    Another update. Since my wife made the comments about the 8 inch Black Dildo feeling like a truck, I purchased an UR3 6 inch. Last night I used the NEW 6 inch on her and it went great! As I had mentioned, my wife is very modest and not sexually adventurous at all. I can only think of doing things like this if she has been drinking and she as a nice buzz going on. I have the dildo bedside, in a large cup filled with hot water to keep it warm. I heavily lubricated it and fucked her with it for about 10-15 minutes, Then I removed it and fucked her with my cock. I always cum inside her. After I came, we laid there for about 10-15 minutes as I rubbed her back while she was on her side facing away from me. I rubbed around her ass and across her soaking pussy. She then opened her legs to allow me to start fingering her very wet pussy. I fingered her for about 5 minutes and then got the dildo again, as she repositioned on her back and legs wide open...I think that she knew that I was going to use the dildo on her again. I lubed it up and started teasing her pussy with it and then starting fucking her with it again. I fucked her as I deep as I could with it and she was loving it. It was awesome watching me fuck her cum filled pussy with this dildo! I would then pull it back so just the tip was in the opening of her pussy, in hopes that she would start to ride it...which to my pleasing she did! she laid there, with her hands back over her head, eyes closed and panting and moaning as she fucked the dildo as I held it in place and gave an extra push to be ALL the way in if need be. After about 15 minutes of this she motioned for me to remove it and said that she wanted my cock. So I fucked her hard for another 10 minutes. It was an awesome experience and I cannot wait for this to happen again. Unfortunately, I have to pick my spots on when to pull out the dildo for use. I want to purchase the 6 inch Black R5 dildo next. I am wondering if she will ever let me get the 8 inch back inside her pussy at some point. I hope to be able to continue to share better experiences moving forward.
     
  13. helpgetherthere

    helpgetherthere Active Member

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    Any new updates. I got my wife one. Some 9" cyber skin thing that she really likes on occasion, but she can't take it all either. Maybe 6" at the most.