its so difficult finding a guy to join my gf and I in VA. where am I going wrong?

#2
We had this same problem, I found having my wife do most of the talking helped even though she prefers I arrange things. Still had a complete flake from this site, no clue how hes a verified member. Have her talk to them on the phone and facetime to verify the person is serious. There are real members here willing to meet up you just have to weed your way through the flakes and pic collectors