Is Wife-Sharing Part of Cuckoldry?

[Dsoul]

I'm intruiged by this question, and I hope someone can help iron it out for me: Some hubbies love sharing their wives with another man (both fucking her together or one taking turn afterwards), while others prefer other men fucking her...

The thing is there's a lot of parameters towards cuckoldry that some persons would argue that though they practice some of the lifestyle, that wife-sharing isn't in anyway close to the hubby being declared a cuckold.

Anyone got anything to add to this?

 

[adpet1001]

My comments in "they really are that big" earlier touch on this, my stance is this. I am not into joining in, another mans cock is not my thing, but if its yours - good luck to you. I am not into being humiliated by either my gf or the guy she is with, once again if its why you're into - go for it. I just enjoy the fact my gf can enjoy exploring this facet of herself. So not sure what name tag to put on it, but it works for us.

 

[mywife4fcks]

a hotwife is a married wife or a steady gf who fucks other men with her hubbys or bfs consent n knowledge.
the hubby or the bf in such cases are known as cuckolds.there maynot b limits to extend to which this can take.
denial,humiliation,etc are only different extends to which cuckoldry can go.but the basic thing is a wife/gf fucking other males with their patners knowledge.

 

[adpet1001]

If that's the label on what we both enjoy, then great. All I know is that we are a couple that love each other, but enjoy this addition to our lives from time to time. She is happy, I'm happy, and I'm pretty darn sure that the lucky guy who is fucking her is happy.

 

[Got2]

Under the general defination of Cuckold: If a cock other than yours enters the wife/GF then you are a cuckold. As far as consent within the relationship, there is consent and cheeting.

Sharing would be consentual. Either present during the act with her lover or 'allowing' her to have sex with her Bull seperatly.
Here is where the excitement for the cuck comes into play: First, as those commenters have noted above, there is a thrill of knowing that your woman is getting mindblowing sex from her Bull. If she is happy, the consentual cuck is happy. Now here is the secret, the sex the cuck has to 'reclaim' his woman can be mindblowing for both the cuck and wife.

It was reported to me by a wife I had enjoyed that her cuck husband, knowing I had been with her on a Thrusday night, "could not keep has hands off her all weekend long and had sex with her at least 15 times that weekend." I'd say that couple enjoyed the experience.

 

[adpet1001]

I have to say it has made our bond stronger, and our sex life better, not because I am competing as we make love together based on our emotional bond, when gf is with a guy it is fucking pure and simple, he could have a 12 inch cock and cum on the hpur every hour, and still he won't satisfy her more.

 

[Ruby's cuck]

Hiya Dsoul,

I agree with got2 above in the big picture.

A man whos wife has sex with others, and he knows about it, he is a cuckold!!!
Doesn't matter if he sulks at home nor if he dons lingerie and "helps" or serves snacks and refreshments, nor does it matter if he has sex with them (bi stuff, cleanup, creampies, etc).

A faithful husband who knows of his wife's adultery is in fact a cuckold even if he's putting the dick in her alongside the other man/men, the so called hot-wife scene. There's just a whole spectrum as for peoples kinks and desires...

 

[mac5489]

ive never considered my self a cuckold... its not about power or submission to me anyway... i love seeing my wife with men other then me.. it excitesd me and her.. she likes showing off.. and i love watching ... its like a live action porn with ur favorite starlet fucking just for u ...and though we have swapped some and done various 3ways ive never done anything with the guy shes with and shes never like made me feel little or uninvolved.. just watching her and seeing genuine excitement in her eyes is a huge turn on for me ...but thats just me...

 

[Got2]

Mac...Bravo.

Cuckold, it's just a word. There is no power/submission or negativity attached to the word. Society, external and internal opinions put the connotations to words.

Your wife is getting a great sexual experience, all be it with other men, and you are happy with that. Hehehehe, if you don't like the connotations attached to a certain word, you don't have it use it as a lable. You're just a happy husband and your wife is a happy woman.

 

[Dsoul]

In other words, it's safe to say that being a cuckold only comes down to how one views it based on what the couple/wife/hubby desires from their bull.

Does that help?

 

[Got2]

Dsoul,
Possibly. But still, the standard defination, regardless of the connotation, is that if another man is having sex with a married woman, then the hubby is a 'Cuckold'. But, some are more happy than others.

 

[Dsoul]

Dsoul,
Possibly. But still, the standard defination, regardless of the connotation, is that if another man is having sex with a married woman, then the hubby is a 'Cuckold'. But, some are more happy than others.

No, I do get what you're saying, and I do agree with you. Just saying that nowadays, a lot of couples are going beyond redefining what being a cuckold actually means for them. There's some hubbies out there who much prefer fucking their wives with another man at the same time, and there's those where the lover only has access to the wife and not the hubby ... then those that want to be made sissies and become sexually dominated...

I'm just saying that the parameters of Cuckoldry is changing and most times it's much better that the couples lay out first and foremost how they want such to go for them, thus the bull would now know where he comes in and whatever role to play.

 

[mywife4fcks]

cheating is not cuckoldism its infidelity or adultery. cuckoldism must have the husbands consent n knowledge.

 

[mac5489]

is it cheating if she enjoys other men and u enjoy knowing she does? i love watching my wife hit on guys wether she fucks them or not ...

 

[mywife4fcks]

when the hubby knows,how can it be cheating?

 

[Dsoul]

is it cheating if she enjoys other men and u enjoy knowing she does? i love watching my wife hit on guys wether she fucks them or not ...

There's no cheating in that... as long as you know that's what she's into. Even better a wife feels totally free when her husband gives her the reins to hold when meeting other men.

 

[mywife4fcks]

there are 3 distinct aspects to what is cuckoldism.
1)a married wife or a gf in a steady relationship,who fucks other men
2)while her husband/bf remains loyal to her.
3)with her husband's or bf's consent and knowledge.
if any of the above 3 are missing then its simply not cuckoldism.
it can be anything else like cheating/adultery/infidelity/swinging/swapping/orgie/gangbang,but its not cuckoldism.

 

[mywife4fcks]

wife sharing should have n fulfill all of the above conditions.
-a married wife lets another man fuck her,her husband knows n consents(till here its good)
but if the husband is fucking other's wife too then hes not a cuckold its more into swinging n swapping scene.
but if the husband is completely loyal n faithful to his wife(like me ) then hes a cuck.

 

[rocuck]

Everybody seems to have different ideas as to what this all means so the actual definitions may not be as rigid as some would suggest. Having said this it seems to us that swingers are where both man and woman can equally be with others. A hot wife relationship is where the woman is the primary one having sex with others. But this does not say that the husband is loyal. The key to cuckolding is that the husband is totally faithful to his wife. This is what sets this apart. In cuckolding there are clearly diferent levels. There is the mild level where the cuckolding serves to just spice things up for sex between the husband and the wife. There is also the other extreme where the husband is kept in chastity. This may be a submissive thing or may be because the husband is a physical cuckold with a small penis, lack of virility etc.

The other issue is the interracial angle. The facts would suggest that the black man is superior to the white man and the white woman is drawn to him. Many white men may disagree with this but I wonder how many white women would disagree. I have come to accept this. True and sincere cuckolding has to acknowledge this. This means that sex is for the white woman and the black man and is for their pleasure. As a cuckold you experience intense desire and jealousy and envy. But you are enough of a wimp to not act on it. The humiliation and submission are what turns you on. If your wife would have sex with you it might destroy this whole thing and diminish her in your eyes. She is to be respected when she has sex with her black lover but also respected when she teases you as a cuckold but does not follow through with anything sexual. So cuckolding is probably something that not everyone can do. It requires a woman who is able to get beyond the idea that she has to have mercy sex with a lesser man, who may just happen to be her white husband. It also requires a white husband who craves this situation of wanting her but not getting her. It also requires the husband and wife to constantly work on the marriage in other ways built upon the husband in a lesser role. The funny thing is that black men don't appear to need to work at this. They just naturally take charge and take the woman. Again you can be jealous of this masculinity as a white boy but it is reality.

So to get back to Dsoul's question abotu wife sharing. If you are cuckolded, as described, the wife is not for you to share. It is for the wife to decide who she is with. If she has a more serious relationship with her lover he may decide to "share" her but that is not the husband sharing. This all goes back to the concern that many are worried about the husband's needs. That may apply in swingers or hot wife's. But as a cuckold the needs should be about the black man and his pleasure and the wife and her pleasure.

Sorry if I went on too long again Dsoul but I hope this makes some sense to some who might agree with me.

 

[Dsoul]

wife sharing should have n fulfill all of the above conditions.
-a married wife lets another man fuck her,her husband knows n consents(till here its good)
but if the husband is fucking other's wife too then hes not a cuckold its more into swinging n swapping scene.
but if the husband is completely loyal n faithful to his wife(like me ) then hes a cuck.

And what about a situation where a hubby goes in search of black men to fulfil his own personal bisexuality?